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NOVA SCOTIA- Mental Health Services
Services for Children and Youth
Mental Health
Crisis Line
1-888-429-8167 (toll free)
Telephone crisis support and mobile response is offered for work, home, school, and community agencies Service is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
Kids Help Phone 1-800-668-6868
Kids Help Phone is a free, anonymous and confidential phone and on-line professional counselling service for youth. Big or small concerns. 24/7. 365 days a year.
District Health Authorities/ IWK
Mental Health and Addiction Services for children and youth are provided by the District Health Authorities and the IWK Health Centre.  Check with you district health authority to see what services are available for children and youth in your local area.
·      IWK Health Centre
·      Capital Health
·      South Shore Health
·      South West Health
811: Peace of Mind 24/7
811.novascotia.ca
Just three numbers - 8-1-1, and you will have access to non-emergency health information and services.
CyberSCAN
The CyberSCAN unit is made up of investigators with various backgrounds. The team will travel the province and work with victims, families, schools and others to investigate complaints, gather evidence and help stop cyberbullying.
To talk to an investigator Call 1 - 855 - 702 - 8324
Canadian Mental Health Association - cmha.ca
Support for people with mental illnesses including Communities Addressing Suicide Together Program.



The Schizophrenia Society of Nova Scotia


The Schizophrenia Society of Nova Scotia
The Schizophrenia Society of Nova Scotia works to improve the quality of life for those affected by schizophrenia and psychosis through education, support programs, influencing public policy, and encouraging research.


Depression
Depression
Teens and young adults who think they may be suffering from depression have resources to help them.
The Department of Health launched a booklet and posters to raise awareness of depression. The materials are meant to alert teens to the early signs of depression and to raise awareness about when they should seek professional help.
Go to Depression Strategy - Teens and Young Adults webpage for more information.
Laing House
Laing House
Laing House is a peer support organization for youth living with mental illness, where members can embrace their unique gifts and find their way in a caring and supportive environment.
Teen Mental Health
Teen Mental Health
This website is dedicated to helping improve the mental health of youth.



Psychosis Sucks
PsychosisSucks.ca
This site promotes early detection, educates about psychosis and provides direction for seeking help.
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OH WOW...  N.S. cyberbullying investigation unit up and running


THE CANADIAN PRESS
 Published Monday, September 30, 2013 3:43PM ADT 
 Last Updated Monday, September 30, 2013 3:45PM ADT 


HALIFAX -- The Nova Scotia government says an investigative unit created to look into cases of cyberbullying in the province is in operation.

The province says the unit's five investigators have started work and will begin taking calls and investigating complaints immediately.

The government says cases will be resolved using informal and legal means, or if necessary, cases could be referred to police.




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Investigators can also apply for a cyberbullying prevention order, which would order a person to stop cyber communication or the technology they are using could be confiscated.

The unit was created following the passage of the Cyber-Safety Act earlier this year, which allows people to sue or seek a protection order from the courts if they or their children are being cyberbullied







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BEST COMMENT EV-A 4 PARENTS AND CAREGIVERS OF CHILDREN/TWEENS/TEENS/YOUNGBLOODS-

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We, as parents, INSISTED on being on our son's friends list (or we simply unplugged the internet at home). We never creeped but certainly saw the activities and we would talk about them together (what he was posting and what others were posting to him). My son has always been a victim of bullies for medical reasons beyond his control so we know all to well about this in our home. But, reality is.... bullies are NOT going to change. They have been around forever, is some shape or form and will continue. But, what WE CAN CHANGE is how we, as parents, support our children and ensure a safe environment for them so when they do face this type of thing, they are better prepared to handle them. I feel for this mother who lost her child, but the FIRST clue is that 'he wouldnt let me see the posts' should have been a major intervention at that time....... My son is now 19 years old and as turned into a nice, and strong, young adult studying in college now.
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I am the mother of daughters. In one way, I am fortunate - there is very little chance I will ever have to look into the my child's face and wonder if a rapist is gazing back at me.

How do the mothers of these boys live with the mini-monster they have nurtured? Is denial and victim-blaming enough? Surely, they remember the worry and underlying fears of their own youth, that should they be in the wrong place at the wrong time - they would be labelled "whore" rather than rape-victim.




'Our daughter is dead. We're the surviving victims': rape, bullying and suicide, after a viral flood
Jessica Valenti
Friday 3 October 2014 15.56 BST

 glen canning rehtaeh parsons father
PHOTO:  ‘As a man, you don’t run into victim-blaming culture,’ says the father of Rehtaeh Parsons. ‘But now I see it like the sun in the sky.’ Photograph: Aaron McKenzie Fraser for Guardian US Opinion

Glen Canning is angry. It’s been a year and a half since his teenage daughter’s suicide in Nova Scotia, and he isn’t even allowed to write her name. “What are they going to do – arrest me for talking about my daughter who died? Go ahead.”
Canning’s daughter, 17-year-old Rehtaeh Parsons, ended her life after her reported rape was photographed and disseminated on social media, after she was tormented by her classmates and dismissed by the police. “They made her feel like she didn’t matter, like she didn’t count,” Canning told me in an interview from his home in Halifax this week. Now, nearly three years after this too-familiar modern nightmare began at a small house party in their quiet Canadian city, Rehtaeh’s family is battling a judge’s order that bans the nation’s media – and even its citizens – from printing her name. Canning, who runs a blog dedicated to his late daughter, says, “We’re left holding onto the voice of our daughter, who has died, and we hope to keep her voice alive – and they’re not even letting us do that.”
Rehtaeh was one of several young women whose stories of sexual assault have gripped the world over the last few years after their tragic stories went viral. Shunned by peers and wronged by school administrations and law enforcement that did almost nothing to help them, these teenagers became international symbols as social media outrage and a growing movement against rape culture took up their cause. In the US, these places – like Steubenville in Ohio and Maryville in Missouri – aren’t just small towns anymore; they are part of a lurid vocabulary of a nation that has seen so much about teens, rape and consent, yet done too little.
But when the tweets recede and the Facebook shares cease to swell, the families of these young women are still there, fighting for some semblance of justice that doesn’t ever seem to arrive. These mothers and fathers are working to change the culture that so wronged their children, so that maybe, some day soon, they can offer the next victim a wave of hope.
“People say you’re so courageous,” Larry Pott tells me. “But our daughter is dead. We’re the surviving victims.”
audrie pott familyAudrie Pott (right) with her grandmother, father, stepmother, brother and younger twin sisters. ‘Daddy,’ one of them recently asked Larry Pott, ‘why don’t girls ever assault anybody?’ Photograph: Courtesy of the Pott family
Almost immediately after Pott’s 15-year-old daughter, Audrie, was sexually assaulted at a party in Silicon Valley, California, her assailants – teenage classmates – spread photos of the attack around school. The California teen had been passed out, and woke up with her shorts off and her body covered in Sharpie pen scribbles. On Facebook, Pott despaired, “The whole school knows ... I have a reputation I can never get rid of ... my life is ruined.” Eight days after the attack, Audrie – a gifted artist and singer who was part of the only middle school band to march at President Obama’s 2008 inauguration – took her own life.
Audrie’s parents – her father Lawrence, her mother Sheila, and her stepmother Lisa – started speaking out even though their grief was still fresh. The first time I saw Larry Pott, he was speaking out, on camera at a press conference, against what he called the “sexual assault and bullying epidemic”. Today, he and the rest of the Pott family seem torn about this week’s signature by California governor Jerry Brown of “Audrie’s Law” – legislation that will increase the punishment for juveniles convicted of sexually assaulting unconscious victims, mandate sex-offender treatment and allow public access to juvenile court hearings in these kind of cases.
“When everything is done in a secret courtroom, there is no accountability,” Pott told me on Wednesday. “There seems to be this unalienable right, that I don’t understand, that if you’re ever assaulted by a juvenile, you can never let anyone know who they are.”
Audrie’s attackers – who pled guilty – were given unimaginably light sentences by the court: Two young men got 30 days in juvenile detention and one was given 45 days. They served some of their time on the weekends.
Sheila Pott, Audrie’s mother, expressed disappointment that California legislators were forced to remove any kind of minimum sentencing from the law. “We’re happy that the current legislation provides more accountability to victims’ rights,” she says. “But we still feel there is more work to be done to implement consequences for this type of criminal behavior.”
rehtaeh parsons bedroomThe Royal Canadian Mounties re-opened an investigation after what they described as new and credible information. By the time evidence was sufficient to prosecute, Rehtaeh Parsons was already gone. Photograph: Aaron McKenzie Fraser for Guardian US Opinion
In Canada, Canning tells me that when Rehtaeh decided to come forward and report her attack, he was incredibly proud. “She did the right thing,” he says, “and I’m telling her: Let the police do their job.” Rehtaeh alleged that she was assaulted by four boys at a party, where one took a picture of the assault. Canning thought that was all the evidence they needed: a photograph of Rehtaeh, naked from the waist-down, hanging out of a window vomiting up while a boy, also undressed, presses into her. He is giving the camera a thumbs-up. But after a year-long “investigation”, in which the Royal Canadian Mounted Police didn’t even bother to interview the boys accused or seize their phones, Rehtaeh was told there simply wasn’t enough evidence.
“It’s like saying someone wasn’t murdered when you have their body and a bullet right in front of you,” her father tells me.
“We asked the police to do something when it really mattered, and they did nothing,” says Canning. Only after his daughter’s death did the evidence seem to be sufficient enough to move forward. Now, one young man has pled guilty to child porn charges for sending around a picture of the attack, as another awaits trial.
But Rehtaeh Parsons and Audrie Pott are still gone. And for both girls’ parents, questions remain as to how something so horrible could have happened, and what they can do to ensure it never happens again.
Larry Pott tells me that his nine-year-old daughter recently asked him, “Daddy, why don’t girls ever assault anybody?” He told her it wasn’t that girls don’t ever rape, just that they don’t do it often. But the simple question from his grade-schooler has left Pott thinking a lot about “what the heck has happened to men and boys?”
pott family testifyingLarry and Lisa Pott testified before the California state senate in April. This week, anti-bullying legislation named after his daughter went into effect. ‘There is more work to be done,’ says Audrie’s mother, Sheila. Photograph: Courtesy of the Pott family
“It’s not a college problem. It’s not a high-school problem. It’s a gender and societal problem,” he says. Lisa Pott, Audrie’s stepmom, adds that while they’re happy to see the White House initiative to end rape on college campuses, she’d like to see more done “at the high school level” to educate teenagers about sexual violence.
“The shame needs to be put on the attackers, and we want to see a general change in attitude that makes it unacceptable to blame the victim at any level.”
In Glen Canning’s house, Rehtaeh’s glasses and a Jane Goodall book still sit idly on bedroom shelves. “As a man, you don’t run into victim-blaming culture,” he tells me. “But now I see it like the sun in the sky.” These days, when he’s not working as a freelance photographer and writer, Canning keeps busy giving speeches about consent and sexual assault at high schools. “I guess it’s similar to Rehtaeh – she always wanted to be a veterinarian. After she was raped, she wanted to be a lawyer and help people who were wronged,” he says.
rehtaeh parsons shelfRehtaeh Parsons’ parents wore t-shirts with her name to court late last month, but her father still can’t print it on his blog devoted to her memory. Photograph: Aaron McKenzie Fraser for Guardian US Opinion
Despite the work being done by activists and victims’ families, despite the social media outcry that follows, young women continue to be wronged as if we have learned nothing. Just a few months ago, a 16-year-old girl from Houston, named Jada, was passed out and allegedly assaulted – photos of her started to spread on social media using a cruel hashtag and with users mimicking her unconscious pose. Instead of being shamed, Jada decided to speak out. She told a local television station: “There’s no point in hiding. Everybody has already seen my face and my body, but that’s not what I am and who I am.”
Audrie’s parents talk about their daughter as kind, beautiful, loyal. Her mother says her daughter had a passion for the arts – part of the reason the Audrie Pott Foundation, an organization founded in her memory – offers art and music scholarships. “She was always singing and working on art projects,” Sheila Pott says.
When Rehtaeh was three years old, she watched Babe: Pig in the City. There’s a scene where a fish is knocked out of its bowl. Rehtaeh stood on her seat in the theater and screamed for someone to help the fish. When Canning wrote on his blog about this memory of his daughter, whom he still could not call by name, he added: “Sometimes her heart was too big, sometimes it scared me.”
These young women are not just sad stories, or pictures gone viral. They were incredible young people, girls who were loved and cherished. And these loved and cherished children were treated like they were less than human – not only by their attackers, but by a system meant to protect them.
Their families have dedicated their lives to their children’s memories – to making sure that the same tragedy doesn’t play out over and over, again and again. These moms and dads simply can’t imagine doing anything else. And if we want to honor the lives ruined, the justice not yet done, it’s time to stop treating these young women’s lives like stories or memes and start thinking – like their families – what we can do to end the horror.


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GLOBAL   2014- STATISTICS- BULLYING- CYBER BULLYING




Cyber Bullying Statistics

Cyber Bullying Statistics
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Mobile phones, Internet access and social networking have opened many doors for teenagers to stay connected to one another. However, it’s also brought the dangers of bullying to the forefront, as more and more teenagers are exposed to its verbal and visual violence. In today’s interconnected world, bullying poses a serious problem for countless teens. Therefore, the need arises for cyberbullying facts and Cyberbullying Statistics 2013.
The following numbers related to Cyber bullying Statistics are according to Liam Hackett (2013) in his Annual Bullying Survey taken from over 2,000 British teens.

In United Kingdom

According to Liam Hackett (2013) in his
Annual Bullying Survey taken from over

2,000

British teens

69%

7 in 10
Young people aged 13 and 22
had experienced Cyber bullying
·      20% Of which had been very extreme.
·      37% Of this experience bullying frequently.
·      20% Also had underwent extreme cases & were twice as likely to be bullied in Facebook than any other sites.
·      With 54% Had underwent extreme cases and were twice as likely to be bullied in Facebook than any other sites.
The level of Cyber bullying Statistics in UK is a growing trend and 7 in 10 (69%) young people aged 13 and 22 had experienced Cyber bullying with 20% of which had been very extreme. 37% of this experience bullying frequently. 20% also had underwent extreme cases and were twice as likely to be bullied in Facebook than any other sites, with 54% of people being bullied on this site. Hackett added that a young transgender is more likely to experience this than boys or girls. When scaled 1 to 10 to test the effect it brings to their self esteem with 10 being incredibly severe, 7.5 was the average. “It’s having a massive impact on young people and it’s ‘heartbreaking to read’,” he said.
Another research led by Steven Walker (2011) on Cyber bullying Statistics reported that over a quarter (29%) of those who had experienced bullying stayed away from school, while 39% stopped socializing outside the campus. “As the use of social media amongst young people continues to grow … Cyber bullying Statistics in UK is only likely to get worse,” he suggested, “… the internet provides a new means through which children and young people are bullied” . Whatever varied results from different surveys shows, the fact still remains that more and more people, almost or over a quarter, especially young ones not just in UK but the whole world over has been experiencing bullying.
Between 1 April 2011 to 31 March 2012 ChildLine carried out 31,599 counselling interactions with a primary concern of bullying. This represents 10% of the total counselling interactions undertaken during that period.
The rate of bullying is similar to that of domestic violence, sexual abuse or deep emotional trauma; a child is generally unwilling to seek counselling from an adult, unless they feel helpless, and hopeless. This accentuates the gravity of the situation, and its spread.
April (2012) The Guasp school report in April 2012 reports that Almost half (46%) of children and young people say they have been bullied at school at some point in their lives.
38% of disabled children worried about being bullied.
Over half (55%) of lesbian, gay and bisexual young people have experienced homophobic bullying at school.
Though bullying has no specific trigger or victim; perpetrators always target who they believe are weaklings; i.e. someone they doubt would be able to stand up to them, or receive support from peers.
Also, Ditch the Label, released its annual Cyber bullying Statistics report and here are some of the key Cyber bullying Statistics 2014 covered.
Note: more than 10,000 youths were surveyed.
The rate of bullying

2012

The Guasp school report
·      46% of children and young people say they have been bullied at school.
·      38% of disabled children worried about being bullied.
·      Over half 55% of lesbian, gay and bisexual young people have experienced homophobic bullying at school.
·      with 82% of them who tried to intervene.
Cyberbullying report

2014

Ditch the Label
·      37% of them are experiencing cyberbullying on a highly frequent basis
·      20% of young people are experiencing extreme cyberbullying on a daily basis
·      54% of young people using Facebook reported that they have experienced cyberbullying on the social network
·      Cyberbullying found to have catastrophic effects upon the self-esteem and social lives of up to 70% of young people
·      7 in 10 young people are victims of cyberbullying
·      37% of them are experiencing cyberbullying on a highly frequent basis
·      20% of young people are experiencing extreme cyberbullying on a daily basis
·      New research suggests that young males and females are equally at risk of cyberbullying
·      Young people found to be twice as likely to be cyber bullied on Facebook as on any other social network. Red Flag?
·      54% of young people using Facebook reported that they have experienced cyberbullying on the social network
·      Facebook, Ask.FM and Twitter found to be the most likely sources of cyberbullying, being the highest in traffic of all social networks.
·      Cyberbullying found to have catastrophic effects upon the self-esteem and social lives of up to 70% of young people
·      An estimated 5.43 million young people in the UK have experienced cyberbullying, with 1.26 million subjected to extreme cyberbullying on a daily basis.
According to Anti-Bullying Alliance, nearly one in five (17%) of London children experience mean or cruel behavior online and a quarter of kids in the capital are witnessing the cyber-bullying of a classmate or friend.
Only 15% of parents think that their child is safe online
47% of parents are concerned about their child being bullied online
Half of parents think their child may have been bullied online, 15% know this for certain.
44% of parents think their child may be a cyber-bully themselves and 13% have been told that their child is a cyber-bully.
65% of children often go online without any parental supervision
26% spending four hours or more online every day.
53% of children go online in their own room.
23% of children who have directed a comment with cruel or abusive language to someone online consider it ‘mean’ to the person it was directed at, and just 9% consider that behavior to be cyber-bullying.
In addition, 15% think if someone was upset by a mean comment directed at them online, they would be ‘over-reacting’, 24% saying they would be shocked to have their comments perceived as cruel.

Bullying and Cyber bullying Statistics in the United States

According to a

2011

Harvard School of Health Study
Male bullies are nearly four times as
likely as non-bullies to grow up to
physically or sexually abuse their
female partners.
By age 24, 60 percent of former
school bullies had been convicted of a
criminal charge at least once.

According to a 2011 Harvard School of Health Study:

·      Male bullies are nearly four times as likely as non-bullies to grow up to physically or sexually abuse their female partners.
·      By age 24, 60 percent of former school bullies had been convicted of a criminal charge at least once.
The issue of bullying doesn’t just erode a student’s self esteem, it affects grades as well. An atmosphere that is unsafe for kids leads to lower academic performance.
·      Schools with higher reports of bullying scored 3 to 6 percent lower than schools that had strong anti-bullying policies in place.
·      Schools that have anti-bullying programs reduce bullying by 50 percent.
Bullying is at its worst in middle school. The percent of middle schools that reported bullying problems is 44 percent. While 20 percent of high schools reported bullying problems and 20 percent of elementary schools reported bullying problems.
According to the most recent statistics by the Bureau of Justice Statistics, US Department of Health and Human Services, Cyberbullying Research Center, bullying continues to plague all our schools, evident by cyberbullying statistics 2013.
·      Students who reported being bullied at school: 37 percent.
·      Students who bully others often: 17 percent.
·      Kids who were made fun of by a bully: 20 percent.
·      Students who suffered from having rumors or gossip spread about them: 10 percent.
·      Kids who reported being physically bullied: 20 percent.
·      Kids who felt excluded from activities they wanted to participate in: 5 percent.
·      Students reported that 85 percent of the bullying occurred inside the school.
·      Other bullying incidents that occurred on school grounds, bus or on their way home: 11 percent.
·      Only 29 percent of students actually reported the bullying to someone at school.
In October 2013, data related to cyberbullying facts collected from about 400 students at one middle school (ages ranged from 11-14) in the Midwest. Cyber Bullying statistics show:
·      97.5% have been online in the previous 30 days
·      63% have a cell phone
·      45% are on Facebook
·      42% are on Instagram
·      11.5% have been the target of cyberbullying in the previous 30 days (boys: 6.8%; girls: 16.0%)
·      3.9% have cyberbullied others in the previous 30 days (boys: 0.6%; girls: 6.9%)
According to a UCLA psychology study on cyber bullying statistics, bullying boosts the social status and popularity of middle school students. Psychologists studied 1,895 students at 11 Los Angeles middle schools, where students were asked to name the students who were considered the “coolest”. According to Jaana Juvonen, the lead author of the study, “The ones who are ‘cool’ bully more, and the ones who bully more are seen as ‘cool’”.
20 percent of U.S. students in grades 9-12 reportedly have experienced bullying, while 28 percent of students in grades 6-12 report the same. Experts agree that most incidences of bullying occur during middle school.

More cyber bully statistics below:

According to one study on cyber bullying statistics cited by the DHHS, 29.3 percent of middle school students had experienced bullying in the classroom; 29 percent experienced it in hallways or lockers; 23.4 percent were bullied in the cafeteria; 19.5 percent were bullied during gym class; and 12.2 percent of bullied kids couldn’t even escape the torture in the bathroom.
Most of the student in the study reported name calling as the most prevalent type of bullying, followed by teasing, rumor-spreading, physical incidents, purposeful isolation, threats, belongings being stolen, and sexual harassment. Surprisingly, cyberbullying occurred with the least frequency.
As for statistics on cyber bullying in 2013, 70.6 percent of teens have seen bullying occurring in their schools – and approximately 30 percent of young people admit to bullying themselves. With so many students seeing what goes on, one has to wonder why bullying proliferates – especially since the DHHS reports that bullying stops within 10 seconds 57 percent of the time when someone intervenes. Juvonen found in her study that “A simple message, such as ‘Bullying is not tolerated,’ is not likely to be very effective,” and that effective anti-bullying programs need to focus on the bystanders, who can step in and stop the behavior.
A 2011 Pew Internet and American Life Survey reaching cyber bully statistics revealed only about seven percent of parents are concerned about cyber bullying in general.
Another fact on statistics on cyber bullying in 2013:  the American Osteopathic Association reports on their cyberbullying statistics 2013 report that when it comes to cyberbullying facts, as many as 52 percent of parents are concerned with bullying on social media sites with only about 1 in 6 parents being aware of this behavior in regard to their children.
About 10 percent of teens report bullying online to their parents according to the Hartford County Examiner.
Only 1/5 of those instances are reported to law enforcement officials.
Cyber bullying isn’t just a phenomenon that is confined to the United States – it is a worldwide problem that affects teens across the globe.

Cyber bullying Statistics 2013: What is Cyber Bullying?

Cyber bullying is bullying behavior (tormenting, threatening, harassment, etc.) that takes place through electronic mediums, including the Internet and mobile phones. This form of bullying can take on various forms, including:
·      Delivering threats or hurtful messages to someone via email or text message
·      Spreading false rumors through text message, online boards or social networking sites.
·      Leaving hurtful, harassing or threatening messages on web pages or social networking sites.
·      Impersonating someone else online to harass or hurt another person.
·      Spreading unflattering or sexually suggestive pictures of another person and spreading them via Internet or cell phones.
·      Cyber bullying is something that affects teens of all races and genders. Recent statistics show that boys are more likely to receive threats from cyber bullies that girls, while girls are just as likely as boys to engage in cyber bullying or fall victim to cyber bullying.
·      The act of cyber bullying itself is often fluid enough for the bully to become the victim and vice-versa. Often times, a target of bullying can easily become an aggressor, while someone who attempt to defend a target of bullying ends up becoming a target themselves.
·      Cyber bullying is a form of teen violence that has lasting and even deadly repercussions for many teenagers. It’s also a form of violence that most parents don’t find out about until it is too late, since over half of young teens who experience or witnessed online bullying do not tell their parents.
Cyber bullying Statistics 2013: How to Stop & Prevent Cyber Bullying
By becoming more aware of cyber bullying as it happens, parents and authority figures can help reduce the prevalence of cyber bullying. Parents should talk to their teens about this phenomenon, explain how it can have devastating consequences and encourage teens to alert an adult if cyber bullying occurs. Victims of cyber bullying should keep messages as proof for parents and/or law enforcement officials, especially if the messages are threatening or sexual in nature. There are other ways parents and teens can help stop cyber bullying in its tracks:
·      Teens should never share personal information online or meet people they only know online.
·      Parents should keep the computer centrally located in a shared area (i.e. living room or family room) and not allow teens to have computers or Internet access in their own rooms.
·      Teens should be encouraged to not share anything they don’t want made public through texting or instant messaging.
According to a recent report by EU Kids Online related to statistics on cyber bullying in 2013, it was found that 55% of 9 – 16 year olds think that there are things online that bother children their age. Also, 12% of children (and 8% of their parents) say they have been bothered or upset by something online in the past year. 4.7% of kids polled say they experienced Bullying (usually repeated aggression).
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Before the World Wide Web, bullying among children and teenagers took place on the schoolyard during school hours, now with cyberbullying, it can happen 24 hours a day and harder to circumvent due to the vast, unregulated territory of the Internet

Bullied Children Linked to Higher Suicide Rates

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According to JAMA Pediatrics, children and teens who are victims of bullying are more inclined to ponder suicide and attempt suicide, as opposed to children who are not bullied. Recent studies indicate that suicidal thoughts and attempts of suicide are highly linked to bullied children. This increasingly dangerous trend of higher rates of suicide among bullied children has gained much national attention. Suicide is one of the leading causes of adolescent mortality.
The approximate estimation of children and teens having any involvement in bullying, either as the assailant or the victim, or both, is 15 to 20 percent. Even though bullying and suicide are largely interlinked, bullying by itself does not solely motivate suicide. There are other determined factors that can lead up to having suicidal thoughts and attempting suicide.
A Netherlands-based research team has accumulated studies that detail in-depth examinations of bullying and suicide. The data rendered some disturbing statistics, children and teens who were victims of bullying are 2.23 times more likely to consider committing suicide and 2.55 times more likely to attempt suicide. The Dutch data was reexamined based on gender and age and it was conclusively the same. Based on a 2012 report provided by Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, there are 100 to 200 times more suicide attempts than the culmination of suicide.
Back in September, in central Florida, 12 year-old Rebecca Sedwick ascended to the top of a cement plant tower and jumped to her death. County prosecutors brought forth felony charges against two girls, ages 14 and 12, who have sent thousands of Facebook messages in a span of a year prior to Rebecca’s tragic death. The messages were disparaging comments about her appearance and some messages encouraged her to take her own life. One of the girls was so dismissive about Rebecca’s suicide that she posted it on Facebook about how she did not care that she bullied her to death. The district office withdrew the charges after an examination of the messages because it lacked evidence that it was the cause of Rebecca’s suicide. Bullied children and teens are even more linked with high suicide rates when it involves the Internet.
Before the World Wide Web, bullying among children and teenagers took place on the schoolyard during school hours, now with cyberbullying, it can happen 24 hours a day and harder to circumvent due to the vast, unregulated territory of the Internet. Cyberbullying involves email, text messages and videos that can produce more damaging effects because it can occur repetitively in front of a mass audience, as opposed to physical bullying. Bullying that happens on the Internet stays on the Internet and victims are more vulnerable to reliving cyber attacks by bullies because of perpetual data storage.
In the wake of Rebecca’s death, students and advocates across the country have pressured school officials and authorities to implement anti-cyberbullying measures to protect children who are victims. In response to this, some have claimed that regulating students online is a gargantuan task and there are no legal definite boundaries of how far students can be monitored during after school hours.
Last month a bill was passed before the US Health, Senate, Labor and Pensions Committee that would execute preventive tactics on cyberbullying. The bill would mandate schools to allot federal funds to establish policies created to impede cyberbullying. Govtrack.us, a website that follows the progression of legislation, lists the bill of having a one percent chance of being passed into law. Until lawmakers decide that this is a social epidemic in schools and recognize that bullied children have a higher rate of committing suicide, then things will have to be done on a personal level. As for now, parents will have to get more involved to prevent their children from being bullies and/or prevent their children from being victims of bullying. Parents, counselors and teachers have to become aware of students harassing other students on the Internet and encourage reporting of bullying.
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Cyber Bullying Statistics Australia, The Ultimate Guide- 2014


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Bullying has always been around, and, whether it is done in the traditional way or on the Internet, approximately 200 million children worldwide have been subjected to it. And the majority of the kids who do the bullying – a full 80 percent of them – don’t care whether they do their bullying online or not, and have bullied their targets both ways. Bullies will find people they want to pick on and will bully them however they can. Cyber bullying statistics Australia show this is true.
Letting these kids get away with bullying others is detrimental to a healthy society. It’s akin to nurturing a future criminal since young bullies have a one in four chance of getting arrested and ending up with a criminal record before they even turn 30. Addressing the issue now and finding ways to change the behavior of bullies, perhaps through tougher laws, is key to creating a better future for current bullies and for their victims (and potential victims) and for society as a whole.
Taking steps to help victims of bullying is equally important. Research shows that kids who are targets of bullies are three times more likely to have symptoms of depression, and almost nine times more likely to consider committing suicide, according to some of the studies. http://cyberbullying.us/
Children are not emotionally equipped to handle the cruelty and intimidation tactics. A study in the UK suggests that young kids who are subjected to bullying often are more likely to develop symptoms of psychosis in early adolescence. The most heartbreaking statistic is that children as young as 3 years old have been targeted by bullies, according to research done in Canada.
Cyber bullying Statistics Australia
More than half the Australian kids between the ages of 12 and 17 surveyed in one study said they regularly worry that someone will hack into their profile page on a social networking site. More than one-third worry about what potential bullies and other people know about them from their social network pages, and 40 percent worry about getting more intimidating messages that will cause them to become upset. Kids who are cyberbullied don’t even feel safe in their own homes because they can receive upsetting messages wherever they are.
Recent studies on cyberbullying cases australia find that 1 in every 10 kids have been bullied online. And 84 percent of the kids who were bullied online were also bullied offline, so addressing both forms of bullying together makes sense.
In Australian schools, a study commissioned by the federal government found that one student in every four has been bullied either online and offline. These studies show that girls are more often victims of cyberbullying and traditional bullying than boys, according to a study by Murdock Children’s Research Institute.
The Australian Journal of Education reported the findings of the Australian Covert Bullying Prevalence Study which shows that more than one-fourth (27 percent) of Australian school kids ages 8 to 14 years old reported being bullied frequently. This study focused primarily on discovering whether bullying was clustered in different schools based on school cultures or other factors. Findings suggest that bullying behavior exists at essentially the same levels throughout Australian schools.
One survey found that one-fourth of the time kids who say they engage in cyberbullying target people they don’t even know, but most victims claim they know the bullies who target them and even once considered them friends. The Cyberbullying Research Center in the U.S. says cell phones are the most common medium used by cyberbullies because 80 percent of teens have them.
Surveys conducted by the Cyberbullying Research Center also found that 50 percent of kids have been cyberbullied in some way and between 10 and 20 percent are subjected to cyberbullying on a regular basis. It affects all races. The most common form that cyberbullying takes, according to the surveys, is spreading rumors about the victim that are particularly cruel, intended to be hurtful, and are often untrue. Most victims of cyberbullying have low self-esteem and have suicidal thoughts. Girls engage in cyberbullying as often as boys, and are more likely to be cyberbully victims. In fact, 64 percent of girls surveyed have been cyberbullied. But while boys are cyberbullied less, those who are targeted by cyberbullies are threatened with physical harm more often than girls.
Cyber bullying statistics Australia do not reflect the true depth of the problem, however, since they only take into account cyberbullying incidents that are reported. One American study reported on in the Journal of School Health states that 90 percent of cyberbully victims have never told an adult they were bullied online.
Boys Town in Australia conducted a study in 2009 of 548 kids who said they had been cyberbully victims, ranging in age from 5 to 25 years old. Just under half – 49 percent – were cyberbullied when they were 10 to 12 years old, while 52 percent between the ages of 13 and 14 were targeted, and one-third of the kids between the ages of 15 and 16, were cyberbullied. The vast majority of the participants in the Boys Town study, which was ultimately published in 2010, were female, which comprised 447 of the 548 kids, with boys accounting for only 101 of the study’s participants.
This study found that cyberbullies verbally attacked their prey via email, in online chat rooms, on social networking sites and on mobile phones. This study also found that the most common form of abuse took the form of name calling, spreading rumors, and making abusive comments. Other forms the bullying took were threats of physical harm, being ignored or excluded from group activities or socializing, slamming the victim’s opinions, impersonating the victim online, sending or posting photographs that were upsetting to the victim, and a final category of other instances that were least common. Boys Town created a chart to go along with its study that breaks down each of these forms of abuse according to age groups.
Emotional responses of those victimized by cyberbullies included sadness, anger, embarrassment, frustration and fear, with sadness and anger at the top. Online interventions were found to be the most effective ways to cope with cyberbullying, with blocking the bully being the most effective strategy. More than 75 percent of the Boys Town kids studied tried online interventions including blocking, unfriending the cyberbully, and changing information and access to their own account. Some kids tried telling an adult, confronting the bully, telling their friends, stopped looking at the site, on which they were being bullied, stayed offline entirely, did nothing, and others took the opposite approach by retaliating against the cyberbully using some of the bully’s own tactics against him.
Also, interestingly, even though most victims of cyberbullying rarely resort to telling an adult, that strategy was rated as high as blocking in the degree of helpfulness achieved at 76 percent. Next was telling a friend at 68.5 percent.
All the studies and their cyber bullying statistics Australia illustrate the traumatic impact of cyberbullying on both the bullies (because many end up as criminals) and the victims, who sometimes are affected so much they go so far as to commit suicide. These findings show the harm that could be irreparable if cyberbullying is not taken seriously enough.



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How to Stop Cyberbullying in Australia-  2014


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Bullying has become more complex in the past decade due in part to advances in technology, particularly the development of the Internet, and the widespread use of cellphones. Learn How to Stop Cyberbullying in Australia Now!
To prevent cyberbullying, it is essential to first understand what it is and how to identify it. Cyberbullying is the use of technology to embarrass, harass, or emotionally harm another person. The repercussions of cyberbullying are not limited to technology however. The feelings of anger, fear, humiliation, and depression can, and usually do, carry over to everyday life.
How Does Cyberbullying Happen?
·      People obtain pictures of you to send them to others via picture message or on the Internet in order to embarrass or ridicule you.
·      People use the Internet to talk about you negatively on a public forum, such as Facebook or Twitter, where others can see.
·      People harass you verbally via text messages, emails, or Internet forums.
·      People obtain the passwords to your social networking pages, such as Facebook, and use it to tamper with your information in order to humiliate you.
·      People use their influence or threats to stop other people from communicating with you so that you feel isolated and alone.
Because the Internet and cell phones can be found in every country, cyberbullying can be found in all parts of the world. The suicide of Charlotte Dawson—model, author, and diligent campaigner against cyberbullying—in February of 2014 brought cyberbullying in Australia back into the spotlight and has spawned new discussion on cyberbullying laws. Dawson was herself the victim of cyberbullying via Twitter and Facebook, where anonymous figures urged her to kill herself. Charlotte Dawson’s suicide is an example of the ultimate harm caused by cyberbullying.
Why is Cyberbullying So Dangerous?
·      Videos, pictures, and personal information can be spread quickly and without discretion, reaching a large audience in a matter of moments.
·      Bullies can remain anonymous, making them more vicious and hurtful.
·      Cyberbullying is hard to regulate, and many victims will not tell their parents or loved ones they are being harassed until it is too late.
·      It is nearly impossible to punish cyberbullies.
·      Once something, such as a picture, is put onto the Internet, it is nearly impossible to take off, even when legal action is taken.
·      Technology is used in nearly every school and work place in the world, so it is impossible for most students and workers to avoid using technology all together.
·      Cyberbullies can by relentless; they are able to change their online identities numerous times without ever using their real names.
So who exactly is affected by cyberbullying? The most basic answer is everyone, but adolescents are the group most often affected. It is important for parents to watch for warning signs that their child is the victim of cyberbullying.
·      According to Queensland Government (www.qld.gov.au), 91% of Australian teens age 14-17 get on the Internet at least once a week, mainly to check social media sites like Facebook or to talk to their friends through emails or messaging.
·      Of those who reported being bullied, 83% said they were cyberbullied by people that they not only knew personally, but who they considered to be their friends.
·      40% of youths under the age of 18 worry about receiving hostile or demeaning texts, emails, or messages.
Parents who are worried that their child might be the target of cyberbullying should be educated about where and when cyberbullying can take place.
Where Are People Most Likely to Be Cyberbullied?
·      Social media websites, such as Twitter, Facebook, Tumblr, and Springform; all of these websites have features that allow others to post public comments, privately message people, “chat” with other users privately, and post pictures and videos of anyone or anything that they choose
·      Email, via sites like Hotmail or Yahoo, where anyone who obtains another person’s email address can send private messages
·      Via chat rooms
·      On gaming sites, where game players can talk to other players on public chat forums or through private messages
·      On Blogs, or personal webpages where individuals write about their thoughts and ideas, and others read them
·      Through messages on their phone; anyone who knows their phone number can send them harassing texts or pictures
In reality, no one is completely safe from being cyberbullied. Anyone who regularly uses a computer either for school or work, has a social media page such as Facebook, or who owns a cell phone can become the target of a cyberbully. For the friends and family of cyberbully victims, the signs that someone they love is being cyberbullied are not immediately clear. However, sometimes close attention can help prevent cyberbullying from continuing.
Signs That Someone Is a Victim of Cyberbullying
·      They are suddenly reluctant to use the internet or their cell phone.
·      They become hostile and withdrawn.
·      They become easily angered and lash out at those around them.
·      Their school work and extracurricular activities start to suffer or become neglected.
·      They frequently claim to be ill to avoid going to school or social events.
·      They abruptly stop socializing with people they previously considered friends.
After the suicide of Charlotte Dawson, a new anti-cyberbullying bill, dubbed Charlotte’s Law, was proposed and presented to Australian legislation. It calls for tougher reinforcement of existing laws regarding cyberbullying in Australia, and for social media networks to take more responsibility for what is posted on their websites. However, social media sites are presented with massive amounts of information daily, and it is virtually impossible for them to catch all instances of cyberbullying. It is up to parents and individuals to safeguard their children and themselves as best they can against cyberbullies.
·      Do not share private information, such as telephone numbers, email addresses, or home addresses, on any social media site. Once online, your information can be accessed and used by nearly anyone.
·      If messaged or texted by a stranger, do not respond. If someone sends you a harassing or derogatory message online, save the message to show to website officials and block the user so they cannot send anything else or see your personal page.
·      Use the security options provided by whichever website you are on. Most social media sites will have the option to hide personal information from anyone who is not approved.
·      Do not send revealing pictures to another person, even if they are someone you consider a close friend. Once you send someone a picture, it becomes their property to do with as they please.
·      Tell an adult or someone you trust immediately if you are being bullied online, especially if it is by someone you know. Stopping a cyberbully can not only be beneficial to you, but to their future victims.
·      For persistent and serious cases of cyberbullying or online harassment, contact the Australian Human Rights Commission at 1 300 656 419.
The laws on cyberbullying for each state and territory in Australia are different. However, cyberbullying is never ok, no matter where you live. For more information on cyberbullying laws and resources, visit www.cybersmart.gov.au/reportaspx.
Cyberbullying is extremely dangerous and can cause long term mental distress as well as suicidal thoughts and actions. Know the warning signs of cyberbullying, where you or your children are most likely to face cyberbullying, and how to protect yourselves and your loved ones from cyberbullies.


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We, as parents, INSISTED on being on our son's friends list (or we simply unplugged the internet at home). We never creeped but certainly saw the activities and we would talk about them together (what he was posting and what others were posting to him). My son has always been a victim of bullies for medical reasons beyond his control so we know all to well about this in our home. But, reality is.... bullies are NOT going to change. They have been around forever, is some shape or form and will continue. But, what WE CAN CHANGE is how we, as parents, support our children and ensure a safe environment for them so when they do face this type of thing, they are better prepared to handle them. I feel for this mother who lost her child, but the FIRST clue is that 'he wouldnt let me see the posts' should have been a major intervention at that time....... My son is now 19 years old and as turned into a nice, and strong, young adult studying in college now.

 

 

 

 

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Central Nova MP to bring in new anti-cyber-bulling law

By Rick Fleming. Last updated: 2013-09-27 05:54:38

Central Nova MP and Justice Minister Peter MacKay confirms that the government will introduce new legislation to fight cyber-bullying in the near future.

It will call for greater public education and Criminal Code changes.

MacKay adds that everyone has been hurt by the death of a 15-year-old Saskatchewan boy who was allegedly driven to suicide by bullying, as well as the Rehtaeh Parsons case in Nova Scotia.

The Saskatchewan teen's mom, Kim Loik; is one of many who are demanding new laws to combat cyber-bullying.


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LINKS ON BULLYING AND CHILD ABUSE- (Mind Rape/Physical Torture/Sexual Assault)
FOR KIDS- TWEENS-TEENS-YOUNGBLOODS- But perhaps most of all….. each and every Canadain Adult- we must take more responsibility and be more vigilant:

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If you are a victim of bullying, call The Kids Help Phone at 1-800-668-6868.




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The Girl you just called fat? She has been starving herself & has lost over 30lbs.

The Boy you just called stupid? He has a learning disability & studies over 4hrs a night.

 The Girl you just called ugly? She spends hours putting makeup on hoping people will like her.

 The Boy you just tripped? He’s abused enough at home. There’s a lot more to people than you think.


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Cyber Bullying in Canada — What is the Solution?


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Cyber bullying in Canada has reached epic proportions while a debate centers on the country’s current cyberbullying legislation. A controversy exists as opponents of Canada’s new cyberbullying bill claim that the government is using cyberbullying to push through other unrelated issues when the entire focus of the bill should be placed on the phenomenon of cyberbullying itself.
How to find a solution to cyber bullying in Canada?
Interactive websites such as social media websites or gaming chat rooms, along with cell phone text messaging and other electronic media, can sometimes attract mentally unstable individuals that prey on the vulnerability of children. Cyberbullying has become a serious problem that has far reaching affects. Derogatory and harassing text messages or Internet posts made to and about children can have deep psychological effects such as depression, anxiety and sleep disorders. Many children are not emotionally equipped to deal with bullying, so remain passive as the emotional distress builds up, sometimes leading to severe consequences.

A Solution to Cyber Bullying in Canada: What Can Teachers Do?

Teachers often find children who have been the victims of cyberbullying suddenly grow quieter in their classes. They show a marked lack of enthusiasm, and have difficulty concentrating and participating in schoolwork or other school-related activities. Subsequently, their academic success becomes jeopardized. There are a number of things that educators can do to help solve the problem of cyber bullying in Canada.
Teachers can:
·      Instruct students about safe uses of social media
·      Develop concise policies that have to do with student online safety
·      Work closely with parents to solve the problem of cyberbullying in schools and at home
·      Familiarize themselves more closely with online environments
·      Engage in staff training workshops to address the issue

Solutions to Cyber Bullying in Canada : What Can Parents Do?

Parents should be on the lookout for any symptoms that cyber bullying has occurred toward their children. They can help by making themselves more available and interacting with their children more on a more personal level. It helps to show an interest in how one’s children feel and to encourage them to express their feelings, especially when it comes to something as serious as cyberbullying. Children need to know that their parents are their allies.
Parents can become proactive in taking preventive measures to create a home environment that enables their children to safely reduce the chances of being cyber bullied. The parents can offer protection in the form of supervision of their children’s social media interactions and to offer them a sense of comfort.
There are a number of rules that parents can put into place that can also help. For instance, children should be taught not to give out personal information about themselves to strangers online. They should be taught not to give out their personal passwords to any third parties other than their parents. Parents should, however, have their children’s passwords at all times.
Parents can sit down with their children and show them how to identify emails that might arrive from child predators. They should be encouraged not to open any email from any person with whom they have personal knowledge. It is a good idea to ask children to reserve suspicious email for the parents to open later.
Parents are also advised to inform themselves about the root causes of cyber bullying and why it occurs. Bullying, in any form, can often mean a cry for help from someone, often-another child, who was once the victim of bullying him or her. Helping one’s children understand this element of the equation can often help parents stop bullying before it even begins.
A special advisory committee on cyber bullying has made a number of recommendations to the Canadian government that involve a plan to promote awareness about the harm that cyber bullying can cause children, and to make parents and students aware of the relevant programs that exist for parents and children alike. There is a movement afoot to assure that these programs are available in every region of Canada.
Cyber bullying in Canada has highlighted the need for these resources to help children cope with bullying online. Kids Help Phone exists for that purpose. In 2007, Elizabeth Lines, representing Kids Help Phone, administered a study of close to 2500 students between the ages of 13 and 15. Over 70% of these children had previously reported being bullied via their computers, while close to 45% of them admitted to having bullied another person at least one time in their lives. This study suggested that a large number of children do not understand the impossibility of controlling the flow of information that one can access with their computers and that they do not comprehend that cyberspace is not personal.
Parents and teachers that work together to raise awareness about cyberbullying are taking the first step toward solving the problem. Elizabeth Lines, “Cyberbullying: Our Kids’ New Reality,” Kids Help Phone (April 2007)
Learn more about Canada’s fight against Bullying and the state of Cyber Bullying in Canada!  and help locate solutions to cyber bullying in Canada now!

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Understanding Laws against Bullying


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It is common to get news of a kid bullied either at school or at home. What is more perturbing about these cases is the kind of dehumanizing treatment that the victim goes through in the hands of the perpetrators. The act of bullying can take many forms which are all aimed at humiliating and intimidating the affected party. They include text messages, emails, website posts and a face to face encounter. The one-on-one bullying entails name-calling, use of teases, rumor peddling, and use of threats. Where it takes place through online media, it is referred to as cyber bullying. Learn about Laws against Bullying!

Legislation of Laws against Bullying

Laws against Bullying are those that are geared towards preventing the act of bullying, regardless of the form and the place. The legal redress of the menace has reduced these cases to a great extent. However, a better part of the population is still in total darkness concerning the legislation. The Laws against Bullying have a prominent focus in schools which are seen as the main base of operation for bullies. Bullying is most problematic in the middle years of schooling.
It is important to note that most of the federal laws have no direct relation to bullying. What usually happens is that most bullying incidences overlap with discrimination cases. It could be based on race, skin color, national origin, religion, or disability. In such scenarios, the first party that plays an instrumental role in stopping the vice is the school administration. If the situation deteriorates, the Department of Education will then take up the matter. This is especially when an individual’s civil rights have been compromised. The Department of Justice will also help resolve the matter to the final conclusion.
At school level, there are Laws against Bullying that oblige the administrators to settle the matter. The cases that are handled could be:
·      Pervasive or persistent
·      Creating an unfavorable environment for learning
·      Based on religious disability or sex among others
The immediate obligation of the school is to put to an end the cases that are related to the above. This calls for an understanding of the federal laws used in achieving the desired results. Failure by the school to uphold the required cohesive and learner friendly environment will lead to the case being handled by the relevant higher authorities.

Federal Laws against Bullying enforced by the Department of Education and Department of Justice

·      Title IV and VI of the Civil Rights Act -1964
·      Rehabilitation Act of 1973, section 504
·      Titles II and III, Americans with Disabilities Act
·      Education Amendments, title IX 1972
Title IX and IV protect all students even if one is or is considered to be a LGBT. These sections are mainly tailored to prevent sexual harassment by either fellow students of any other party. Harassment based sexual orientation and sex is not mutually exclusive. The following is a case study that will help you understand how this kind of laws works.
A female high school student is slammed into desks, spat on, and mocked. She is also called names because she allegedly does not conform to stereotypes that are feminine in nature. Her sexual orientation is also one of the reasons that fueled the attack which left her a complete wreck. She is fond of wearing male clothes, has a deep voice and short hair. The situation goes to the extreme when she confesses that she is part of the lesbian movement. In response to the case, the school terms the whole thing as “sexual orientation harassment.” Consequently, no action is taken and the young girl continues to live in turmoil. Here, the harassment is mainly due to the fact that the girl was not in agreement with some gender stereotypes. The school was therefore not justified to categorize the case as stemming from sexual orientation. The appropriate law that should have been used in determining the case should have been drawn from Title IX.

Schools’ Obligation in Regard to Harassment Arising From Protected Classes

As an individual, you have the liberty to report bullying cases to the school authorities. The following are the lines of action by the school after you have launched the complaint.
·      Obligation to undertake the investigation and determination of what took place
·      Making inquiries from the victim and the suspected culprits
·      Making the offenders desist from their unbecoming behaviors
·      The targeted students must also be protected from retaliation
As can be seen, the laws against bullying are weak and inadequate. There is a need for more stringent laws against bullying to curb this vice. This is a joint war that requires everybody so as to realize the desired level of success. There is an urge for everyone to be an active participant in this struggle. Your kid is much safer when you are playing a role in helping to fight bullying.
Learn more on how to stop bullying with the implementation of Laws against Bullying. If you can’t find Laws against Bullying in your area, press your local legislators to demand stricter Laws against Bullying.
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The National Center for Educational Statistics reports that in 2014 1 of 3 students reported being bullied during the school year. In the National Crime Victimization Survey of 2014 about 64.5% reported incidents that occurred twice in the year. About 18.5% reported incidents reported bullying twice a month, and 7.8 percent reported bullying incidents occurred daily.


Bullying Suicide Statistics- 2014- USA


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There is a strong link between bullying and suicides. In the last few years a string of suicides in the United States and around the world has called attention to this problem. It happens to both boys and girls. The method is direct bullying person to person and cyber bullying using the Internet. Learn about Bullying Suicide Statistics!
Many parents view bullying as a part of growing up. Often they do not realize the devastating effects. Often it does not stop with one or two incidents but continues. It is often a steady barrage of demeaning incidents daily. Suicide is the third leading cause of death according to the Center for Disease Control. It results in about 4,400 deaths per year.
Bullied victims are 7 to 9% more likely to consider suicide according to a study by Yale University. Studies in Britain have found half of the suicides among youth related to bullying. According to a study by ABC News over 30,000 children stay home every day due to the fear of being bullied. Bullying can be related to physical, emotional, cyber bullying, and sexting circulating nude or suggestive pictures of a person or messages.
A young male from Ireland named Joshua Unsworth hanged himself after frequent cyber bullying on a social network that he belonged to. He was teased about his father being a farmer and peers made fun of his dating habits. This constant barrage of bullying lead to depression and suicide.
The Urban Institute’s study on bullying showed 17% of students reported being victims of cyber bullying, 41% victims of physical bullyng, and 15 % experienced different kinds. According to a study by Zweig, Dank, Lachman, & Yahner 2014, the types of bullying vary according to gender. About 50% of girls experienced psychological bullying, and 45% males physical bullying.
The Center For Disease Control reported that students that experience bullying are twice as likely to have negative effects. These effects are depression, sleep difficulties, anxiety, and trouble adjusting to school. They are twice as likely to get stomach aches and headaches.
The National Center for Educational Statistics reports that in 2014 1 of 3 students reported being bullied during the school year. In the National Crime Victimization Survey of 2014 about 64.5% reported incidents that occurred twice in the year. About 18.5% reported incidents reported bullying twice a month, and 7.8 percent reported bullying incidents occurred daily.
Many students reported bullying that involved being made fun of and called names. Other methods of bullying were having rumors spread about them, threating the person with bodily harm, being pushed or shoved, and spit on. Others students had their belongings stolen or destroyed and were excluded from the groups on purpose. Bullying often produces depression, lowers self esteem, and produces a mentality of helplessness in victims. This information is from the study by Anderson 2014.
According to the Suicide Awareness Voices for Education suicides among 15-24 years olds is the third leading cause of death for youth. One of 65,000 children ages 10 to 14 commit suicide every year. Over 16% of students seriously consider suicide, 13% create a plan, and 8 percent have made a serious attempt.
The National Alliance on Mental Health 2014 reported suicide was one of the most common psychiatric emergencies. It claims about 30,000 lives every year. The biggest risk factor is a prior history of suicidal behavior. About 35.7% of elementary school are required by the school district to teach suicide prevention, 61.5% of middle schools, and 75.0% of high schools. About 78.4% of school districts required schools to have a plan for students at risk for suicide.
About 80% of youth that commits suicide have depressive symptoms. Peer victimization and bullying causes higher rates of suicide among youth according to the JAMA Pediatrics 2014. Cyber bullying leads to thoughts of suicide more than traditional bullying. Many students are bullied and engage in bullying behavior.
On January 12, 2012 Amanda Diane Cummings, a 15 year old Staten Island youth jumped in front of a bus. She carried a note on her that stated that classmates were constantly teasing her and stole her personal possessions. While she recovered in the hospital classmates posted cruel comments on her Facebook page. Bullying is not considered a serious crime by many. Kids that report incidents are told to toughen up or fight back. Sometimes authorities tell children no one likes a tattle tale so they do not get the help they need.
Audrie Pott was attacked sexually at a party she attended by three boys. Photos were taken of the incident and posted online. She was at a sleepover and alcohol was involved The girls hung herself about 8 days after the incident. These photos were shared with classmates from Saratoga High School. She did not tell anyone about the attack or the incident. Her parents did not know about it until after her death.
A 15 year old Connecticut boy Bart Palosz took his life by shooting himself. His death is linked with many years of bullying at school and on social networks. He was a quiet boy that related better to adults than his peers. He was 6 feet 3 inches tall and had a Polish accent making him a target for frequent ridicule. Incidents include boys in town calling him names, pushing him into bushes, and destroying his cell phone.
He did not fight back or tell any adult about the bullying .The boy met with a guidance counselor several times but told the woman everything was fine. Although his parents claim they asked the school for help nothing was done. He also posted comments about suicide on social media recently a sign of trouble.
Another girl Cynthie Sanchez killed herself after years of peer bullying and cyber bullying. Sometimes kids just called her name but online they told her to kill herself and how. She suffered from depression so this lead to her actions. She was only 14 years old.
These are a few cases that show that bullying contributes to suicide in youth. Bullying suicide statistics are based on solid research.
Cyber Bullying and Suicide
Cyber bullying is another form of bullying that is more prevalent due to cell phones and the Internet. About 42% of youth with tech access report that they have been cyber bullied. Approximately 69% of teens own their own computer, cell phone, and use social media.
An average teen often sends 60 text messages a day. Teen texting is double of what adults do. Girls in the age group of 14-16 years old text often send 100 messages a day. Over 7.5 million Facebook users are under 13 years old. Over 81% of teens admit that bullying is easier to get away with online. About 20% of kids that are cyber bullied think about suicide.
The Hartford County Examiner reports that 1 to 10 kids that are cyber bullied do not tell their parents. Only 1 of 5 cyber bullying incidents are reported to authorities. The Cyberbullying Research Center reported that mean comments and spreading rumors are the most common type of cyber bullying. Cyber bullying victims often have low self esteem and are likely to consider suicide.
According to the American Association of Suicidology rates for suicide among 10 to 14 year olds has grown 50% over the last three decades. A review of studies made in 13 countries found a link between bullying and suicide according to Yale School of Medicine. Parents and educators should know the signs of youth and teens at risk for suicide. This can help save lives. Looking at bullying and statistics often helps adults learn to see the problem before it become serious.
Signs of Depression in Youth And Suicide
Adults and teachers should learn the signs of serious depression in youth. They are talking or joking about committing suicide with friends or family and on social media. Writing poems or stories about death, dying and suicide primarily. Engaging in reckless behavior that results in accidents or giving away prized possessions. Talking about ways to kill themselves using pills, or weapons. An outgoing person that withdraws from family and friends is a sign. An good student whose grades plummet and they lose interest in learning is a sign of depression.
Other signs are trouble sleeping, frequent nightmares, change in eating habits. weight loss or extreme weight gain. Parents and teachers should watch students and note incidents of bullying on the playground, cafeteria or in the neighborhood. Talk to kids about suicide tell them it is not the way to solve problems. It is wrong and should not ever be attempted.
Encourage kids when bullied to tell an adult or teacher so that they can get help. When a child is depressed and does not seem to be getting any better get them help. Talk with your doctor who may be able to recommend psychiatric help. Bullying suicide statistics are just a sign that adults need to be more involved with their kids. In this way, tragedies can be prevented and kids can be saved.



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More Evidence That Bullying Raises Kids’ Suicide Risk- 2014- HEALTH

March 10, 2014

By Randy Dotinga
HealthDay Reporter
MONDAY, March 10, 2014 (HealthDay News) — Children and teens involved in bullying — victims and perpetrators alike — are more likely to think about suicide or attempt it. And cyber bullying appears more strongly linked to suicidal thoughts than other forms of bullying, a new research review finds.
The findings “establish with more certainty that bullying is related to suicide thoughts and attempts,” said study lead author Mitch van Geel, a researcher with the Institute of Education and Child Studies at Leiden University in the Netherlands. “And we establish that these results hold for boys and girls, and older and younger children.”
Bullying is widespread among children and teens. According to previous studies, almost 50 percent of kids in grades 4 to 12 reported being bullied within the previous month. Nearly one-third said they were bullies themselves.
The new results, published March 10 in the journal JAMA Pediatrics, are based on 43 previous studies. They don’t confirm that bullying directly pushes kids to be suicidal, however. It’s possible that the connection is more complex, or even that suicidal kids are more likely to be bullied, the researchers said.
In recent years, highly publicized suicides of young people have focused attention on the subject. Last August, a Greenwich, Conn., sophomore who reportedly sustained years of bullying killed himself after the first day of school, according to news reports. In October, a 15-year-old from Carterville, Ill., who committed suicide reportedly left a note saying he was bullied at school. Two days before his death, two Florida girls were arrested for bullying a 12-year-old who killed herself.
Bullying can take many forms. Physical threats and attacks, such as shoving, pushing and hitting, as well as teasing, name-calling and spreading rumors are well-known bully behaviors.
Less common statistically but possibly more harmful is bullying through technology such as email and social media, the researchers said. The exact reasons for this aren’t clear, they said, but more people can be reached through the Internet and offensive material can be stored and resent indefinitely.
Van Geel and his colleagues launched the new review of existing research to better understand the connection between bullying and suicide.
The researchers examined 34 studies with a total of about 285,000 participants that explored the relationship between bullying and suicidal thoughts. They looked at nine studies, with about 70,000 participants, that focused on bullying and suicide attempts. Only three studies in the review dealt with cyber-bullying.
The studies, which involved 9- to 21-year-olds, were from countries as varied as the United States, South Africa, New Zealand and South Korea.
In general, the studies found that bullies and bully-victims — people who bully others and are bullied themselves — are at higher risk of suicidal thoughts and suicide attempts. The design of the review didn’t allow the authors to quantify the increased level of risk in lay terms, but a statistical analysis suggests the increased risk is significant, van Geel said.
Researchers believe suicidal thoughts and attempts are connected to completed suicides, van Geel said.
But spotting kids at risk of being bullied is a challenge, van Geel said. “Often victims choose not to share their problems,” he said. Some fear they won’t be taken seriously, or worry that talking might make the bullying worse, he said.
“Some victims may go unnoticed for a very long time,” he added.
Still, some children — gay or obese kids, for example — are especially prone to becoming victims of bullying, van Geel said. “Teachers might use this knowledge to identify potential victims,” he said.
Could kids be more vulnerable to bullying because they’re already depressed?
Todd Herrenkohl, a professor of social work at the University of Washington, studies bullying and said this possibility deserves more research. Bullied kids often stand out as being different from others, he said, and those who are depressed or have other mental issues could fit into that vulnerable category.
As for future research, Herrenkohl said, one of the big mysteries about bullying is how some victims are resilient and recover, while others suffer. Researchers need to understand “how to help kids not only avoid becoming victims but rebound from a bullying experience in a way that doesn’t lead to suicide attempts,” he said.
For now, the authors support programs that teach kids to be more than bystanders when they witness bullying. Also valuable are programs for parents and educators on identifying and preventing bullying, they said.
“Make children feel that they can safely talk to teachers about bullying, and make children feel that bullying is a problem that will be taken seriously,” van Geel said.
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Bullying Statistics 2014

The Essential Guide to Bullying Statistics 2014 and recent bullying percentages.
There is no doubt that bullying is a problem in U.S. schools, but just how much of a problem is it? The latest bullying statistics 2014 reflect bullying in “real life,” as well as cyber bullying. The numbers related to any bullying statistic are both shocking and disheartening.
According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services’ (DHHS) anti-bullying website, Stopbullying.gov, bullying is defined as “intentionally aggressive, usually repeated” verbal, social, or physical behavior aimed at a specific person or group of people. Some bullying actions are considered criminal, such as harassment or hazing; but “bullying” alone is not illegal. And recent news stories abound with tales of cyberbullying – where the target is harassed through social media or other technology – that have unfortunately resulted in victims’ suicides. The majority of bullying still takes place at school; 1 in 3 U.S. students say they have been bullied at school, according to the DHHS. More shocking bullying statistics for 2014 follow:
Bullying Statistics 2014: Middle School Mayhem
According to a UCLA psychology study, bullying boosts the social status and popularity of middle school students. Psychologists studied 1,895 students at 11 Los Angeles middle schools, where students were asked to name the students who were considered the “coolest”. According to Jaana Juvonen, the lead author of the study, “The ones who are ‘cool’ bully more, and the ones who bully more are seen as ‘cool’”.
·      20 percent of U.S. students in grades 9-12 reportedly have experienced bullying or are feeling bullied, while 28 percent of students in grades 6-12 report the same. Experts agree that most incidences of bullying occur during middle school.
·      According to one study cited by the DHHS, 29.3 percent of middle school students had experienced bullying in the classroom; 29 percent experienced it in hallways or lockers; 23.4 percent were bullied in the cafeteria; 19.5 percent were bullied during gym class; and 12.2 percent of bullied kids couldn’t even escape the torture in the bathroom.
·      Most of the student in the study reported name calling as the most prevalent type of bullying, followed by teasing, rumor-spreading, physical incidents, purposeful isolation, threats, belongings being stolen, and sexual harassment. Surprisingly, cyberbullying occurred with the least frequency.
·      70.6 percent of teens have seen bullying occurring in their schools – and approximately 30 percent of young people admit to bullying themselves. With so many students seeing what goes on, one has to wonder why bullying proliferates – especially since the DHHS reports that bullying stops within 10 seconds 57 percent of the time when someone intervenes. Juvonen found in her study that “A simple message, such as ‘Bullying is not tolerated,’ is not likely to be very effective,” and that effective anti-bullying programs need to focus on the bystanders, who can step in and stop the behavior.
Bullying Statistics 2014: Lasting Effects of CyberBullying
Most experts agree that bullying peaks in middle school, while children are making the transition from children to young adults. Although bullying certainly continues into high school – and even into adulthood, unfortunately – it does seem to subside with maturity. Even so, approximately 160,000 teens reportedly skip school every day because they are bullied, and 1 in 10 teens drops out of school due to repeated bullying.
·      83 percent of girls, and 79 percent of boys report being bullied either in school or online.
·      75 percent of school shootings have been linked to harassment and bullying against the shooter.
·      Not shockingly, students who are bullies as young adults continue the trend of abuse and violence into adulthood. By the age of 30, approximately 40 percent of boys who were identified as bullies in middle- and high school had been arrested three or more times.
Bullying Statistics 2014: The Targets
Unfortunately, children and teens who are considered “different” from their peers are the most frequent targets of bullies and are constantly bullied. Special needs students; Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered (LGBT) students; students who are overweight; and students who are perceived as “weak” are the most likely targets of bullying by others. Nine out of 10 LGBT youth report being verbally bullied because of their sexual orientation, while 55.2% of those students reported being cyberbullied. Of special needs students who report bullying, the majority of those who are victimized are students diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome, and students with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD).
Bullying Statistics 2014: Stopping the Cycle of Bullying
Unfortunately, only 20-30 percent of students who are bullied tell adults or authorities about their situations. Without accurate reporting, it’s difficult to change the patterns of bullying and abuse that persist in the U.S.
Shocking Facts about Bullying: Why Bullies Bully
It is only by understanding why bullies bully that we can be able to understand just how they pick their prey or victim. When a bully wants to become popular, it is understood that he will pick on the most unpopular kid, one who has for one reason or another been shunned by the peer group. The bully will reason that the peer group will applaud this anti-social behaviour and he or she will then become popular at the expense of the poor victim. 
If the bully comes from a home where fighting and violence is the order of the day, then he or she will see it as an acceptable behaviour in the society. The same case happens to be true in schools where there is a lot of bullying happening and helps understand Why Bullies Bully.
Power may also prompt people to bully others. Teenagers who are given power over the others should also be trained in leadership skills to keep them from exercising it in a negative way.
Types of Bullies
In order to know how to deal with bullies, you need to know what type of bully you are dealing with. Although bullies can exist just about anywhere , the three most common types of bullies are:
·      School bullies
·      Cyber bullies
·      Workplace bullies
Bullying behaviors are common to all types of bullies, whether you need to know how to deal with bullies at work or how to deal with bullies at school. All bullies are aggressive. Bullies do not like to be disagreed with. This aggression could be physical or verbal. Bullies may hit you or take your money. Threats can come to the victim, the victim’s family, the victim’s possessions or the victim’s pets, all by evil bullies.
The common result of bullying behavior is that the victim feels powerless. They never know when their bully is going to strike next. They also are confused as to why they are getting bullied in the first place. The reason why bullies pick victims really doesn’t matter. Bullies pick victims because that is what they do. Bullying behavior does not stop until bullies meet bigger and more powerful bullies.
School bullying prevention programs are known to decrease bullying in schools up to 25 percent. That is one of the Shocking Facts about Bullying.
About 28 percent of students in grades 6-12 experience some form of bullying according to bullying statistics 2013. Over 30 percent of students admit to bullying classmates and peers. When an adult intervenes in a bullying incident, it stops within 10 seconds or more about 57 percent of the time. This is why addressing the problem often cuts down on bullying incidents that happen daily and rescues many students from being bullied.

There are many different types of bullying. According to Hertz, Donato and Wright there is a strong correlation between bullying and suicide related behaviors. The relationship is often influenced by o factors like depression and delinquency. Those bullied by peers were more likely to think of suicide and even attempt it.
Middle school students report many different forms of bullying during the school years. About 44.2% of bullying is teasing which is often playing jokes and calling a child names. Over 43.3 percent of children have rumors and lies spread about them verbally or online. About 36.3 percent of children experience pushing and shoving in lines or class, 32.4% report hitting, shoving, and kicking by peers, and 29.2% have been left out or ignored by classmates.
About 28.5 percent of middle school students been threatened by peers and classmates and 27.4 report someone stealing their belongings as another type of bullying. Over 23.7 percent report sexual comments and gestures as another form of bullying.
Where does bullying occur many parents and teachers wonder about the location. Bullying takes place on school grounds and often on the bus. This is not the only place it occurs however ! Cyber bullying occurs on cell phones and online on social networks, boards, and through email. A study of middle school students reported that they were bullied about 29.3% in classrooms, 29.0% in the school hallways or near lockers, and 23.4% in the cafeteria.
Other locations that school student were bullied were 19.5% of the time the gym or PE class, the bathroom 12.2%, and the playground or recess 6.2 % .. This study shows that bullying occurs in many locations where children gather to study, play, or hang out. Only between 20 to 30 percent of students that are bullied tell an adult or teacher about the incident.
Regular bullying and cyber bullying in schools and elsewhere are believed to be linked to violence among youth, suicide and even murder. Over 77 percent of students have been bullied verbally, mentally, and physically. Each day about 160,000 students miss school because of bullying or because of their fear of being bullied. The sad fact is that every 7 minutes a child is bullied on the playground. Adult intervention is often 4%, peer or classmate intervention is 11%, and no intervention is 85%. This means that is more common for these incidents to be ignored.
The Bureau of Justice School Bullying and Cyber Bullying reports that bullying often leads to violence. About 87 percent of students say school shootings are motivated by the desire to get back at those who have hurt them. About 86 percent in this study cite bullying as the reason that kids turn to lethal violence. Some students believe that experiencing physical or emotional abuse at home can lead to similar behavior at school. About 61 percent linked school shootings with the perpetrator being physically abused at home. These are some of the statistics from their study.
Reports and gay bullying facts reveal that gay bullying is also rampant in schools and online. Any child who isn’t fitting in counts as an active member of the homosexual community and is consequently bullied and harassed. One of the most Shocking Facts about Bullying.
It is essential for parents and educators to understand what is bullying in school and how figuring out what is bullying in school can help them fight bullying the right way. Grasping bullying facts or “bully facts” can help parents and educators start the right conversation with their children, bullying is a complicated socio-psychological issues and the way to fight it is to be armed with much bullying facts today.
Knowing the bullying statistics 2013 gives parents, teachers, and other adults knowledge of the problem. It does not stop or resolve the problem that many boys and girls face every day at school or online. This problem affects all groups despite the race, sex, gender, religion, or nationality. One bullying statistic gives higher rates for handicapped and LGBT youth evident in gay bullying facts.
Bullying statistics 2013 offer key points on what to look for in your child or at children in school. Knowing the types of bullying and where it occurs gives an adult the advantage. Remember statistics on bullying 2013 point to a problem that must be addressed to change things.
Don’t let your loved one become a shocking number in a bullying statistic especially with the rise of bullying in middle school making it a hub for future bullies. As for cyber bullying in schools, do you think it is a real problem these days? Tell us your thoughts on cyber bullying in schools?
We hope you have enjoyed reading our Bullying Statistics 2014 and Bullying Statistics 2013 and we encourage you to spread the word by simply sharing it on your social media. It is as simple as that! Share this guide on bullying percentages in today’s world now and stop bullies from ruining your life, you don’t have to live your life being bullied. Help all those around you say “No Bullying Allowed again”! Got info on how to reach a no bullying zone in your school? tell us below.
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Parenting a Bully
Parenting a bully can be tough. Parents should learn what bullying means and the consequences it can have for the bully. There are some important ways that parents can help their children learn to not be a bully. Find tips for parenting a bully here.


Bullying is a repeated pattern of singling out another person for mean behavior. Boys and girls both bully, though boys tend to be more physical and girls more social in their bullying. Bullying can take a number of forms, including:

    Physically pushing around another person
    Mocking or putting someone down
    Maliciously gossiping or spreading rumors
    Ignoring or excluding someone
    Using cell phones or the computer to send mean messages to a person 

When parents hear that their child is bullying others, it is a normal reaction for them to deny or defend the bullying, especially if the person telling them about the problem is accusatory, angry, or aggressive. Though it's difficult, parents should try to listen to what others are saying about their child. They can help keep the conversation more calm by asking the person to tell them about the problem without yelling or labeling their child a bully, and by reassuring them that they will talk to the child who has been acting like a bully. Parenting a bully starts with recognizing your child may be bullying other children. 

Parents of a child who is bullying others may not know how to approach the problem. Sometimes a school counselor or a mental health professional can help them understand the concepts associated with parenting a bully. Children and teens can bully for a number of reasons, including feeling insecure, having watched another person act like a bully, having been bullied themselves, or feeling that bullying can get them what they want, including social acceptance or dominance over others.

Understanding why children bully can help you in parenting a bully.  Contrary to popular misconceptions, bullies general have friends and a high self-esteem. They are, however, more likely to be impulsive, aggressive, or easily frustrated, and to have trouble with rules and authority figures. They also tend to lack empathy for others. Bullying is not normal behavior or just part of growing up. It is important to get help for a child or teen who is acting like a bully because bullying can have a negative impact, not only on the victim, but also on the bully and the school or community.

Children or teens who bully others are more likely to:

    Turn to violence as a way to deal with problems, which can lead to fighting
    Rebel against or be aggressive toward authority figures, including parents
    Damage property or steal
    Abuse drugs or alcohol
    Do poorly in school
    Get in trouble with the law 

Parenting a bully can involve legal responsibilities.  Bullying can also cross the line into illegal behavior, including bullying that takes place on the phone or the computer. Parents can be held responsible for phone or computer bullying, which can include facing legal actions or losing their phone or internet accounts.

Some things that parents can do to teach their children not to bully include:

    Set a good example by not bullying or intimidating others, and standing up to friends or family members who act like bullies
    Talk to your child about the fact that bullying is wrong and hurts other people
    Make clear family rules about what bullying is and that any form of bullying is not acceptable. Explain what the consequences will be if anyone bullies, and make sure that you follow through on the consequences every time the rule is broken. Rules and consequences should not be too lax or too harsh
    Help children and teens learn to empathize with others by asking them to think about how someone else might feel about being bullied. It also may help to encourage them to do kind things for others, including those they don't know well.
    Spend time with your child and ask questions about their friends and their activities. Get to know their friends.
    Monitor teens' behavior, including their use of their cell phone and computer. Consider keeping a family computer and not allowing computers in children's or teens' rooms.
    Encourage your child's positive activities and goals and praise their accomplishments.
    Watch for and praise any times that they use positive social interactions or non-violent problem solving, such as showing empathy for others or compromising in an argument.
    Make sure children get any help they need if they are struggling in school or in other areas of their lives, including having problems with aggressive behavior or lack of self-control.
    Work with school teachers and administrators to discourage bullying at school and reward positive behavior
    Get counseling for children who have a persistent pattern of bullying to find out if there are any underlying problems causing the bullying. 

Though it may be difficult to admit a child or teen has a problem with bullying, getting them help will improve their well-being and chances for success in life. With help, parenting a bully can get easier.

Sources:

SAMHSA's National Mental Health Information Center, "Is Your Child a Bully?" [online]

Center for the Study and Prevention of Violence, Safe Communities - Safe Schools Fact Sheet, "Bullying Prevention: Recommendations for Parents" [online]

Sherryll Kraizer, Coalition for Children, Inc., Safe Child Program, "Take a Stand: Prevention of Bullying and Interpersonal Violence" [online]

National Crime Prevention Center, "Bullying: What Parents Can Do" [online]

Stop Bullying Now! "Help for Youth Who Bully" [online]

Girl Scouts, LMK: Life Online, "Do You Know the Consequences of Cyberbullying?" [online]


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"The most recent Australian data (ABS, Causes of Death, 2009) reports deaths due to suicide at 2,132. That equates to 6 deaths by suicide a day, or one every four hours." Source: https://www.lifeline.org.au/About-Lifeline/Media-Centre/Suicide-Statistics-in-Australia



"For youth between the ages of 10 and 24, suicide is the third leading cause of death in the U.S." ("Teen Suicide Statistics": http://www.statisticbrain.com/teen-suicide-statistics/



"It's time to confront the deadliest demon of them all" (Sydney Morning Herald, Nov. 3, 2010):


"There is a silent killer in our schools, stalking the youth of Australia. It is silent because we don't talk about it. It is not cancer or obesity. It is suicide, and as many as five Australian children attempt it every day.

About 100 Australian boys and girls complete suicide each year. That's one bright light extinguished every four days. Research indicates that for every suicide there are 10 to 20 attempts. That equates to as many as five children a day across Australia."


Let's make a difference in 2014. Stop bullying and cyberbullying, especially among youth. - See more at: http://theworldtable.org/content/teens-committed-suicide-because-bullying-youtube#sthash.ML3sBTc5.dpuf




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Bullying in Ireland — Cases, Statistics, and Laws


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Devastating consequences of teen bullying continue to make headlines in Ireland and other countries. As a result of harassment, some children take their own lives due to the abuse of a bully. A bully is someone that attempts to intimidate or inflict harm on another person, whether emotionally or physically. Bullies come in all ages, genders, races, and sizes, and are very common among school aged children. Learn about Bullying in Ireland Now!

Types of Abuse

Torture can arrive in the form of verbal abuse, emotional abuse, physical abuse, or cyber bullying.
Verbal abuse often takes the form of name calling, mean insults, and generally belittling another person. Emotional abuse occurs when a person is shunned, for whatever reason. Physical bullying is when a person inflicts intentional pain on someone else such as punching, kicking, biting, pinching, pulling hair, etc. Cyber bullying is a new form of abuse and is particularly harmful to children between the ages of 13 and 18.
Cyber bullying is a very potent type of technological abuse. What makes this type of abuse so impactful, is that harassment is not restricted to school, but can “follow” a person due to computers and smartphones used by the majority of students. On these devices, online media is accessed, and communication is constant. Rumors can be started, pictures can be sent, and threatening text and voicemail messages can also be sent; anytime, anywhere.
Cyber bullying can impact the psyche of a young person because with media exposure, all comments and photos are widely viewed. Children can quickly be overwhelmed and feel ostracized when harmful comments are made and believed. During an impressionable and vulnerable time of life, cyber bullying can have dire consequences

Case of Cyber Bullying

Ciara Pugsley chose to end her life after being bullied online. She was 15 years old and lived in Leitrim. She suffered from insults directed at her on a popular social website, Ask.fm.com. The Gardai were asked to investigate the online history of cyber abuse following Ciara’s tragic death. The website associated with Ciara’s death has also been in the media spotlight for further suicides.
Another recent case of bullying in Ireland involves the sad story of two sisters, Erin (13) and Shannon (15) Gallaher who committed suicide within months of each other. The reasons for their deaths point to cyber bullying on the teen website Ask.fm.com. The mother of these girls is determined to shut down the site Ask.fm.com and is receiving global support from other parents due to more than a dozen suicides related to similar activity on this website (Ask.fm.com has faced no criminal conviction).
Ask.fm.com was designed for teenagers for the sake of communicating information; the site allows people to ask questions and wait for replies. Answers to questions can be posted anonymously, which has led to poor behavior.
Currently Ask.fm.com is enjoying great success with millions of users and does not accept blame for any suicides that have been associated with their website. Because they understand that harassment is taking place on their site, Ask.fm.com has newly implemented safety features such as buttons to block and report users. These new options allow teens the ability to control correspondence and the ability to report abusive behavior.
Statistics
One quarter of children between the ages of 9 and 16 report experiencing some form of bullying or harassment. Surveys conducted among children in the aforementioned age group show that more than half of bullying victims would choose not to report their abuse to their parents or school because of possible repercussions.
Children often view their world in small terms and don’t want to provoke the bully by getting them “in trouble” and children don’t want to upset authority figures at home, which could result in the loss of their own privileges.
Laws
With the devastation of suicides connected to cyber bullying, the societal problem of bullying and harassment in general has gained worldwide focus. Bullying in Ireland is recognized and criminal and civil laws are in place that can reduce some of the problems.
Criminal Law: Although there is no specific law against general bullying in Ireland, three types of abuse are illegal and parents should contact the An Garda Siochana if any of the following occur:
1. Physical contact: assault, or beating.
2. Serious threats to kill or harm another person.
3. Repeated harassment of another person.
Civil Law: Schools and the Board of Management are responsible for protecting students that are placed in their care. A school will be found negligent if they fail to protect a child from injury, in reasonable circumstances. While at school children should be cared for by staff members in the same way as a “prudent parent” cares for their own offspring.

Cyber bullying and the Law

There are no laws in place for the specific act of cyber bullying. However, if a student is harassed or threatened over their phone, this may count as an offense under the Non-Fatal Offences against the Person Act 1997, which does not allow harassment via the telephone.

Documentation and Records

It is imperative to keep all evidence of abuse and harassment. Whether text messages, online posts or conversation, or offensive photos, everything that is transmitted through cyberspace is available… forever. Nothing is private, and complete records can be obtained to prove the history of abuse.
In Ireland, the Gardai has the power to request information from Irish websites for investigations into cyber bullying. Outside of the country, it may be more difficult, though possible with the correct authorities, to obtain full records from phone and online companies.
As a parent, it is vital to keep a journal and keep documentation of all abuse that is taking place; there are many ways to become involved and help students conquer a bullying situation.

Tips for Parents

The first step in helping a child involves an aware parent. Parents need to be involved in their child’s life and communication should be open. Parents should be alert to changes in behavior, torn clothes, and cuts and bruises. Parents should address social issues; children shouldn’t be afraid to reveal being bullied.
Parents can comfort their children by helping them face their fears and learn how to stand up for themselves in the actual world and online. With these 6 tips, parents can help stop the abuse:
1.    Never react impulsively. Anger may surface and the protective instinct may produce negative ideas about retaliation on behalf of your child. Resist the urge to take abrupt or negative action.
2.    Stick to the facts. Learn the details about the bullying situation and record everything. Keeping emotions separate, it is important to deal with factual events without overreacting.
3.    Work with school administration or other parents to protect all children involved. When possible, enlist the support of fellow parents and school staff. Very seldom does a bully limit his rage to one outlet; if he has demonstrated abusive behavior, there are likely more victims than your child.
4.    Implement programs and consequences for bullies; set a precedent at school. When a parent has the opportunity to be instrumental in developing programs that bring awareness and consequences to bullying behavior, they should do so for the sake of their own child and others.
5.    Visit a therapist or counselor; professional conversations may help your child deal with feelings and personal responsibility. By speaking to someone skilled in the psychology of bullying, the healing process will be more thorough and self assurance may arrive sooner than if left solely in the hands of the parent.
6.    Learn from this bullying episode. After helping your child to confront the bullying situation and not accept the role of “victim”, he will be ready when the next instance presents itself. He will recognize an abusive encounter and know how to conduct himself.
Bullying in Ireland is a serious problem that is being recognized by the country. There are heartbreaking cases of suicide that have brought attention to the bullying issues within the schools. With technology, cyber bullying takes the abuse away from the schoolyard, leaving who liable?
Tragedy has brought new light to the very real problem of students harassing other students in person and especially online. As new laws are developed in Ireland, parents, school staff, and law enforcement must work together to reduce the traumatic bullying issues for the younger generations.
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Six Unforgettable Cyberbullying Cases

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The National Youth Violence Prevention Resource Center estimates that nearly 30 percent of American youth are either a bully or a target of bullying. However, bullying is no longer a problem that is isolated to the playgrounds, hallways and lunch rooms of schools across the United States. Instead, advances in technology have now extended harassment to cell phones, social media websites and other online avenues that are contributing to an alarming number of suicides.
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), suicide is the third leading cause of death among young people with approximately 4,400 deaths every year. The CDC estimates on cyberbullying stories 2012 that there are at least 100 suicide attempts for every suicide among young people. More than 14 percent of high school students have considered suicide and nearly 7 percent have attempted it, that is why you will, sadly, read more cyberbullying cases now in the media than ever!
Randi and Lori Sansone — both doctors of psychology — believe victims of bullying can suffer from social difficulties, internalizing symptoms, anxiety, depression, suicidal ideation and eating disorders such as anorexia and bulimia nervosa.
In order to prevent bullying, it’s essential to understand exactly what it is with reading bullying stories of victims as well as bullying stories of survivors. According to the Department of Education and Early Childhood Development, “bullying is repeated verbal, physical, social or psychological aggressive behavior by a person or group directed towards a less powerful person or group that is intended to cause harm, distress or fear.”
Unfortunately, without an example, it’s hard to understand exactly what bullying looks like and how a cyberbully acts. This why it is essential to share recent bullying cases with everyone.
When it comes to recent bullying cases, It’s never fun being the centerpiece of stories about bullying, but the worse part about being bullied isn’t getting beat up or feeling embarrassed or humiliated, the worse part is that all of those negative experiences end up drifting into other parts of your life. It’s strange, it all seems to start out so simply and before you know it, everything in your life is a mess as a result of your reaction to being bullied. As a supporter of the movement against bullying, you need to learn more on those stories about bullying.
In the past decade, there have been multiple cyberbullying cases that end with young people taking their own lives after being becoming victims. Here are six stories of cyberbullying cases mentioned in cyber bullying articles that garnered national, in some cases, global attention:

Cyberbullying Cases: Ryan Halligan (December 18, 1989 – October 7, 2003)

Cyber Bullying Stories #1 : According to Ryan’s Story, the website operated by Ryan’s parents, John and Kelly Halligan, early concerns about Ryan’s speech, language and motor skills development led to him receiving special education services from pre-school through the fourth grade. Ryan’s academic and physical struggles made him the regular target a particular bully at school between the fifth and seventh grade. In February 2003, a fight between Ryan and the bully not only ended the harassment at school, but led to a supposed friendship.
However, after Ryan shared an embarrassing personal story, the newly found friend returned to being a bully and used the information to start a rumour that Ryan was gay. The taunting continued into the summer of 2003, although Ryan thought that he had struck a friendship with a pretty, popular girl through AOL Instant Messenger (AIM). Instead, he later learned that the girl and her friends thought it would be funny to make Ryan think the girl liked him and use it to have him share more personally embarrassing material—which was copied and pasted into AIM exchanges with her friends. On October 7, 2003, Ryan hanged himself in the family bathroom. After his son’s death, John discovered a folder filled with IM exchanges throughout that summer that made him realize “that technology was being utilized as weapons far more effective and reaching [than] the simple ones we had as kids.”
Aftermath: There were no criminal charges filed following Ryan’s death because no criminal law applied to the circumstances. Seven months after Ryan’s death, Vermont’s Bully Prevention Law (ACT 117) was signed into law by Governor Jim Douglas. John Halligan also authored Vermont’s Suicide Prevention Law (ACT 114), which passed unchanged in April 2006.

Cyberbullying Cases: Megan Meier (November 6, 1992 – October 17, 2006), United States v Lori Drew

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Cyber Bullying Stories #2 :  In December 2007, Tina Meier founded the nonprofit Megan Meier Foundation. The non-profit was named in honour of Tina’s 13-year-old daughter who hanged herself in a bedroom closet in October 2006. Megan struggled with attention deficit order and depression in addition to issues with her weight. About five weeks before her death, a 16-year-old boy named Josh Evans asked Megan to be friends on the social networking website MySpace. The two began communicating online regularly, although they never met in person or spoke on the phone. “Megan had a lifelong struggle with weight and self-esteem,” Tina said on the Foundation website. “And now she finally had a boy who she thought really thought she was pretty.”
In mid-October, Josh began saying he didn’t want to be friends anymore, and the messages became more cruel on October 16, 2006, when Josh concluded by telling Megan, “The world would be a better place without you.” The cyberbullying escalated when additional classmates and friends on MySpace began writing disturbing messages and bulletins. Tina said on the Foundation website that it was about 20 minutes after Megan went to her room after leaving the computer that the mother found her daughter hanged herself in her bedroom closet. Megan died the following day, three weeks before what would have been her 14th birthday.
Aftermath: According to the Associated Press, it was later that fall when a neighbor informed Megan’s parents that Josh was not a real person. Instead, the account was created by another neighbor, Lori Drew, her 18-year-old temporary employee Ashley Grills, and Drew’s teenage daughter, who used to be friends with Megan. One year later, the case began receiving national attention. While the county prosecutor declined to file any criminal charges in the case, federal prosecuted charged her with one count of conspiracy and three violations of the Computer Fraud and Abuse Act for accessing protected computers without authorization. A federal grand jury indicted Drew on all four counts in 2008, but U.S. District Judge George Wu acquitted Drew in August 2009 and vacated the conviction.
In addition to the Megan Meier Foundation, Tina also worked closely to help Missouri legislature pass Senate Bill 818, unofficially known as “Megan’s Law,” in August 2008. In April 2009, U.S. Representative Linda Sánchez of California introduced the “Megan Meier Cyber bullying Prevention Act.”, this acts aims to end the harassment of a cyberbully seriously.

Cyberbullying Cases: Jessica Logan (February 15, 1990 – July 3, 2008) and Hope Witsell (May 24, 1996 – September 12, 2009)

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Cyber Bullying Stories #3 & 4 : Jessica Logan was an 18-year-old Sycamore High School senior who sent nude photo of herself to her boyfriend, but the Cincinnati Enquirer reported that the photo was sent to hundreds of teenagers in at least seven Cincinnati-area high schools after the couple broke up. According to the University of Alabama’s cyberbullying website, the cyber bullying continued through Facebook, MySpace and text messages. Jessica hanged herself after attending the funeral of another boy who had committed suicide.
A little more than one year later, 13-year-old Hope Sitwell hanged herself after a picture of her breasts that she “sexted” to her boyfriend was shared amongst students at six different schools in area of Ruskin, Florida, friends and family told CNN. Hope never told her parents about the “Hope Hater Page” that was started on MySpace that led to additional cyber bullying.
Aftermath: The Enquirer reported that Jessica’s parents, Albert and Cynthia Logan, filed a lawsuit against Sycamore High School and the Montgomery police for allegedly not doing enough to keep their daughter from being bullied and harassed following the nude photos of her being widely shared. In February 2012, Ohio Governor John Kasich signed House Bill 116, also known as the Jessica Logan Act, into law. The legislation addresses cyber bullying and expands anti-harassment policies.
Reuters reported that Hope’s parents filed a lawsuit in April 2011 against Hillsborough County school officials for allegedly failing to take appropriate action after learning the teen had suicidal thoughts.

Cyberbullying Cases: Tyler Clementi (December 19, 1991 – September 22, 2010), New Jersey v Dharun Ravi

Cyber Bullying Stories #5: It was during the summer after his high school graduation that 18-year-old Tyler Clementi began sharing that he was gay. Clemenit’s room mate during his freshman year at Rutgers University, Dharun Ravi, used a webcam in September 2010 to stream footage of Clementi kissing another man. According to the Tyler Clementi Foundation, the teenager learned through his room mate’s Twitter feed that he had become “a topic of ridicule in his new social environment.” On September 22, 2010, Clementi committed suicide by jumping off the George Washington Bridge.
Aftermath: Less than a week after Clementi’s death, Ravi and Molly Wei, the hallmate whose computer Ravi used to spy on Clementi, were charged with invasion of privacy. In May 2011, Reuters reported that Wei entered a plea deal requiring that she testify against Ravi. A jury convicted Ravi on 15 criminal charges, and he earned early release 20 days after beginning a 30-day jail sentence.
The Tyler Clementi Higher Education Anti-Harassment Act would require colleges and universities to have anti-harassment policies and expanded bullying prevention programs. In February 2013, the Star-Ledger reported that the bill was reintroduced in both the U.S. Senate and the U.S. House of Representatives.

Cyberbullying Cases: Amanda Todd (November 27, 1996 – October 10, 2012)

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Cyber Bullying Stories #6: In October 2012, ABC News reported that the video Amanda Todd had posted to YouTube had been viewed more than 17 million times. In the video entitled “My story: Struggling, bullying, suicide, self harm,” the British Columbia teenager uses flash cards to tell about her experiences of being blackmailed and bullied. A little over a month after posting the video on September 7, 2012, Amanda hanged herself in her home on October 10, 2012.
Amanda began using video chat in the seventh grade to meet new people online, and one stranger convinced the teenager to bare her breasts on camera. However, the stranger attempted to use the photo to blackmail Amanda, and the picture began circulating on the internet, including a Facebook profile that used the topless photograph as the profile image. “The Internet stalker she flashed kept stalking her,” Amanda’s mother, Carol Todd, told the Vancouver Sun. “Every time she moved schools he would go undercover and become a Facebook friend.”
Aftermath: Less than a week after Amanda’s death, Canada’s CTV News reported that lawmakers would consider a motion seeking to lay the groundwork for a national bullying prevention strategy. The Amanda Todd Legacy, the official blog administered by the teenager’s family, strives to “serve as a bulletin board for all special events and initiatives to support anti-bullying education, help young people struggling with mental health issues and support educational programs that help people with learning disabilities.”
Unfortunately, these are only some of the stories that are occurring all around us on a daily basis. These cyber bullying cases demonstrate that there are actions that many members of the community can take to prevent additional harassment. Parents, educators and other school officials need to recognize signs of cyberbullying, and we must all make a more concerted effort to help cyberbully victims.
The cyberbully victim is not going to declare “I am a cyberbully victim”, instead they are going to assume no one can understand them and help them and resort to self harm or even suicide. it is up to parents and educators to remind each cyberbully victim that help is available and understanding is available if they feel victimized by a cyberbully. It is up to you to tell them that the cyberbully doesn’t control their lives.
It also feels appropriate and more than essential to mention the underlying danger of young teenage porn viewers. When there is young teenage porn involved, a teen’s idea of violence, sex and relationships changes drastically and influences his/her interactions with the community.
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Published on May 5, 2012
Ark of Hope for Children has recognized that, in recent years, a series of bullying-related suicides in the US and across the globe have drawn attention to the connection between bullying and suicide. Too many adults still see bullying as "just part of being a kid." It is a serious problem that leads to many negative effects for victims, including suicide. Research is showing that there is also a link between being a bully and committing suicide.

Some schools or regions seem to have more serious problems with bullying, and suicide related to bullying. This may be due to an excessive problem with bullying at the school. Unsympathetic apathy among teachers, staff and parents at those schools definitely has had a negative effect.

It is well past time for more effective programs that make a difference. These statistics on bullying and the related violence and suicide gathered by Ark of Hope for Children show why.

 

 

Bullying & Teen Suicide Statistics by Ark of Hope


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LYRICS

"Black Eyes, Blue Tears"

Black eyes, I don't need 'em
Blue tears, gimme freedom
Positively never goin' back
I won't live where things are so out of whack
No more rollin' with the punches
No more usin' or abusin'

I'd rather die standing
Than live on my knees
Begging please-no more

Black eyes-I don't need 'em
Blue tears-gimme freedom
Black eyes-all behind me
Blue tears'll never find me now

Definitley found my self esteem
Finally-I'm forever free to dream
No more cryin' in the corner
No excuses-no more bruises

I'd rather die standing
Than live on my knees
Begging please-no more

Black eyes-I don't need 'em
Blue tears-gimme freedom
Black eyes-all behind me
Blue tears'll never find me now

I'd rather die standing
Than live on my knees, begging please...

Black eyes-I don't need 'em
Blue tears-gimme freedom
Black eyes-all behind me
Blue tears'll never find me now

It's all behind me, they'll never find me now

Find your self-esteem and be forever free to dream


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CANADIAN BULLYING STATISTICS
A study on bullying by the University of British Columbia, based on 490 students (half female, half male) in Grades 8-10 in a B.C. city in the winter of 1999, showed:
*       » 64 per cent of kids had been bullied at school.
*       » 12 per cent were bullied regularly (once or more a week).
*       » 13 per cent bullied other students regularly (once or more a week).
*       » 72 per cent observed bullying at school at least once in a while.
*       » 40 per cent tried to intervene.
*       » 64 per cent considered bullying a normal part of school life.
*       » 20-50 per cent said bullying can be a good thing (makes people tougher, is a good way to solve problems, etc.).
*       » 25-33 per cent said bullying is sometimes OK and/or that it is OK to pick on losers.
*       » 61-80 per cent said bullies are often popular and enjoy high status among their peers.

Source: Centre For Youth Social Development, UBC Faculty of Education

- 1 in 5 Canadian Teens have witnessed online Bullying
- 25% of kids between 12-15 have witnessed cyberbullying
- 25% of girls and 17% of boys have witnessed online harassment
- 51% of all teens have had negative experience with social networking
- 16% said someone posted an embarassing photo of them
- 12% said someone hacked their account
Source: Ipsos Reid 2011 Survey of 416 Canadian Teenagers

Canada Bullying Statistics and Facts:
*       Punching, shoving, teasing, spreading bad rumours, keeping certain people out of a group, getting certain people to "gang-up" on others are all forms of bullying
*       One in seven Canadian children aged 11 to 16 are victims of bullying
*       25% of children in grades 4 to 6 have been bullied
*       Bullying occurs once every 7 minutes on the playground and once every 25 minutes in the classroom
*       In majority of cases, bullying stops within 10 seconds when peers intervene, or do not support the bullying behaviour
*       Adults who were bullied as children are more likely to suffer from depression in adulthood.
*       * Between 10% and 15% of high school students are victims.
*       * 11% of secondary students bully other youngsters at least once a year.
*       * 31% of students say they would participate in the bullying of a young dislikes.

Source: Craig &. Pepler, 1997

Cyberbullying Statistics
* 90% of parents are familiar with cyberbullying; 73% are either very or somewhat concerned about it.
* 2 in 5 parents report their child has been involved in a cyberbullying incident; 1 in 4 educators have been cyber-harassment victims.
*  73% of educators are familiar with the issue and 76% believe cyberbullying is a very or somewhat serious problem at their school.
* Educators consider cyberbullying (76%) as big an issue as smoking (75%) and drugs (75%).
The study adds that "the most commonly experienced form of cyberbullying
is when someone takes a private email, IM, or text message and forwards it to someone
else or posts the communication publicly"

*38% of girls online report being bullied, compared with 26% of online boys.
* Nearly 4 in 10 social network users (39%) have been cyberbullied, compared with 22% of online teens who do not use social networks (all from
Pew, 2007).
Source: Microsoft's Truthyworthy Computing division


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Shania Twain - Black Eyes, Blue Tears - Live!


LYRICS

"Black Eyes, Blue Tears"

Black eyes, I don't need 'em
Blue tears, gimme freedom
Positively never goin' back
I won't live where things are so out of whack
No more rollin' with the punches
No more usin' or abusin'

I'd rather die standing
Than live on my knees
Begging please-no more

Black eyes-I don't need 'em
Blue tears-gimme freedom
Black eyes-all behind me
Blue tears'll never find me now

Definitley found my self esteem
Finally-I'm forever free to dream
No more cryin' in the corner
No excuses-no more bruises

I'd rather die standing
Than live on my knees
Begging please-no more

Black eyes-I don't need 'em
Blue tears-gimme freedom
Black eyes-all behind me
Blue tears'll never find me now

I'd rather die standing
Than live on my knees, begging please...

Black eyes-I don't need 'em
Blue tears-gimme freedom
Black eyes-all behind me
Blue tears'll never find me now

It's all behind me, they'll never find me now

Find your self-esteem and be forever free to dream









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Martin Kruze on Reaching Out Child Abuse Monument- TORONTO, CANADA


COMMENT:


One victim, Brian Cills never received a single penny of the? compansation money that was promised to him by the Gardens.

We are wondering if any of the other victims actual received any compansation that was awarded to them.

Or should they all just go and jump off a bridge too.

Please comment to Brian Cills,

if you are one of these vitims.

Thank you.



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HERO - HERO   PAEDOPHILE ABUSED SURVIVOR-  THE VICTOR OVER THE MONSTERS

Maple Leaf Gardens sex abuse victim revisits rink
Man assaulted as a child at Maple Leaf Gardens returns with his hockey team


CBC News  Last Updated: Sep 7, 2013 10:31 PM E

A former victim of convicted Maple Leaf Gardens child molester Gordon Stuckless returned to the arena for the first time today, reclaiming the rink as the new home ice for his junior A hockey club.
The Mattamy Athletic Centre, formerly the Maple Leaf Gardens, is the new home to the Ryerson Rams. Allan Donnan, general manager of the Predators junior A hockey team, will also host 42 games this season at the arena.The Mattamy Athletic Centre, formerly the Maple Leaf Gardens, is the new home to the Ryerson Rams. Allan Donnan, general manager of the Predators junior A hockey team, will also host 42 games this season at the arena. (Tim Wharnsby/CBC)

Allan Donnan was among dozens of boys sexually assaulted decades ago by the former Gardens usher in the 1960s, '70s and '80s.

Now a grown man, Donnan returned Saturday afternoon to the arena that has haunted him for years, this time to watch the puck drop at the historic venue as the general manager of the Toronto Predators junior A hockey team.

    'So much was locked in this building and today we unlocked the door, and we came back in, and we came in the front door.'—Allan Donnan, survivor of sex abuse and general manager of the Toronto Predators

"The young men that walked in with me today, said, 'We got your back, we got your back,' and that made it all worthwhile," he said.

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AND...
Martin Harold Kruze who told the story of his horrendous abuse at Maple Leaf Gardens- COMMITED SUICIDE- at tender 23 yrs of age-  AT THE LITTLE BIT OF JAIL TIME THE PAEDOPHILE MONSTERS GOT.... Dr. Michael Irving built the ONLY.....Children's Abused Surviivors Healing Monument- which is in Toronto, Ontario- Canada


Martin Kruze- I was a Paedophile's Dream-  young hockey player- 3 days after PAEDOPHILE'S 2 YEAR VERDICT-  young hockey play Martin Kruze was so distraught = he commited suicide

Martin Kruze on Reaching Out Child Abuse Monument- TORONTO, CANADA


COMMENT:


One victim, Brian Cills never received a single penny of the? compansation money that was promised to him by the Gardens.

We are wondering if any of the other victims actual received any compansation that was awarded to them.

Or should they all just go and jump off a bridge too.

Please comment to Brian Cills,

if you are one of these vitims.

Thank you.







GET THE POINT- IT'S LIKE CHER SAYS  2 question r u a feminist still??



Cher on the art of the comeback


A conversation with Cher on working with Lady Gaga and singing for Jackie O

by Elio Iannacci on Sunday, September 8, 2013 8:00pm


Q: So many young performers like Taylor Swift don’t want to identify as feminists. Why is that?

A: What is the bad connotation with feminism? When women have full control of their bodies, when women get paid exactly the same as men, when everything that happens for men happens for women, I can stop calling myself a feminist.








AND..




READER’S CORNER

‘How many of you are feminists?’



I remember being in high school in Mr. Plato’s Global History class when he point-blank asked the students: “How many of you are feminists?"

Only about three of us raised our hands. Plato told them all they were doorknobs (or something to that ef­fect, lovingly) and explained that feminism is the basic b elief in equal­ity, something the other kids had never considered before.

Kids aren’t taught about feminism — not what it actually is, anyway. They close their eyes and imagine feminists as fat lesbians, frothing at the mouth and hating men while they stuff their faces with three-day-old tuna casser­ole.

They don’t think of their mothers, struggling to make the same pay as the men at work. They don’t see their older sisters dealing with misogyny each and every day as a university student. They don’t see their neigh­bour being raped, their best friend b eing turned down for jobs, or their grandmother being forced to stay home because that was her “place."

Kids need to know what feminism is, because feminism is how we’re all going to make our world a better place. Making each group equal is how we move beyond issues like what’s happening in our university system, in or our political system, in or our work­places and in our schools.

You have to teach people when they are young that all people deserve equal respect, or else you’ll lose them. Why are kids in their first year of university so quick to accept a sexist chant? Because they don’t know any better, and that’s our fault.

We have to do better for the girls and the boys, or else the next genera­tion will lose something that’s been essential in shaping the current gener­ation: the ongoing fight for gender equality.

Christie Blotnicky, Halifax



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CANADA: ONE BILLION RISING- break the chains-no more excuses -or abuses/ST. MARY'S UNIVERSITY-UNIV. BRITISH COLUMBIA- universities, colleges and schools inclusive-u r tommorow's Canadian Leaders- kids look up 2 u.





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CANADA MILITARY NEWS: Sep6- innie meenie minie mow- catch a nig**r by the toe -in our day VS 2day's "Y is for your sister, O is for oh so tight, U is for underage, N is for no consent, G is for grab that ass, SMU boys we like them young." - Thx SMU students r couragely stepping up and fixing the hurtin




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 PAEDOPHILE HUNTING- Nova Scotia where's our inquiry in2 Nova Scotia Home 4 Coloured Children -black on black paedophile abuse/ Cruise Ships PAEDOPHILE HORROR/ Hunting Paedophiles August 29, 2013


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TO CANADA'S CLASSIFIED... 4 EVERY KID IN THE WORLD- whether ur 2 or 102- we've all been there...


 see u got that Inner Ninja going on- and don't 4get kids and elders are also ur fans- u chisel ur words in stone on our hearts and bring hope from despair 4 homeless kids and kids who have just had a shitty chance at life- thanks Canadian son... and taps out 2 David Myles who also has Canada's flag wrapped around his heart and soul- the Buddy Holly of Canada





 Classified - Inner Ninja ft. David Myles






ONE BILLION RISING- SHORT FILM-  break the chains of abuse- no more excuses







 One Billion Rising- Break the Chain of Abuse- NO MORE EXCUSES-  Evry Day is Internat.Women'sDa




UNITED NATIONS-  USA OBAMA AND THE WORLD NATIONS NEED 2 SIGN 65% OF WORLD'S WOMEN ARE EQUAL-  come on USA-  no more excuses-   and if all nations - do not sign THEN CANADA- DUMP UNITED NATIONS... please











bullying-





malalas















































 first responders




CANADA'S SOLDIERS OF SUICIDE- UNVEILING OTTAWA- SEPTEMBER 15 2013




 Martin Kruze- young hockey play- raped abused as a boy Maple Leaf Gardens- I WAS A PAEDOPHILE'S DREAM-   Child Abuse Healing Monument- Toronto- Canada  (Only one of kind on planet)- we pray 4 the murdered abused kids, suicide kids- and pray 4 the survivors- the victors..... God bless u- Martin Kruze commited suicide 2 days after the horrid small verdict... now the paedphiles are back on 85 more charges.





Honouring our troops- thank u



September 11, 2001- Canadians Remember- somebody has 2 care- God bless our troops




Child Abuse Healing Monument- Toronto-Canada







child abuse-  if we all don't stop this- who will?




suicide by bullying-  11 year old Canadian child- just couldn't take it- only child-BULLYCIDE




Nova Scotia Home 4 Coloured Children- hundreds of lives destroyed by systemic child abuse (mind rape/physical torture/sexual assault) by black on black abuse-  Nova Scotians - Canada wants inquiry




Phoenix Sinclair- takin from beloved foster parents and beaten 2 death and horrible abused by mother and live in partner- she didn't make it 2 five years old folks...














Jamie from Ottawa-  bullycide- are u happy now????



hey Canada- the face of bullycide






Beautiful Courtney A. Brown of Nova Scotia-  tortured and destroyed by peers- BULLYCIDE




Rehtaeh Parson-  raped, tortured by peers-  not one institution in Nova Scotia saved her- BULLYCIDE



VICTIMS NEED JUSTICE FROM PAEDOPHILES- IT'S TIME CANADA- r kids matter






sex /labour slave trafficking of children and women- globally 80 million




MURDER BY BULLYCIDE- OUR AMANDA TODD-   Canada is going 1,000 BULLYCIDES- Let's Step Up Canada

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 LINKS ON BULLYING AND CHILD ABUSE- (Mind Rape/Physical Torture/Sexual Assault)
 FOR KIDS- TWEENS-TEENS-YOUNGBLOODS- But perhaps most of all..... each and every Canadain Adult- we must take more responsibility and be more vigilant:

 To learn more about bullying and if u r being abused- check out:















 RespectED: Violence & Abuse Prevention








 If you are a victim of bullying, call The Kids Help Phone at 1-800-668-6868.

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14 f**king years old??????????????????????????????  HEY BIKER FRIENDS- STREET PEERS- PASS THIS ONE ON -   hang his junk 2 the jailyard wall-  a-n-o-n-y-m-o-u-s   help darlins!





Soccer coach guilty of sex assault


STEVE BRUCE COURT REPORTER

sbr uce@herald.ca @CH_cour ts

A Halifax soccer coach has pleaded guilty to s exually assau lt­ing one of his players, a 14-year-old girl, last fall.

Konstanty (Kostek) Bedoa-Gorski, 24, entered the plea Tues­day in Halifax provincial court.

Bedoa-Gorski, a psychology student at Saint Mary’s University, will be sentenced Dec. 18.

Judge Michael Sherar ordered the young man to co-operate with the preparation of a presentence report.

Defence lawyer Thomas Singleton told the court the sen­tencing date would allow his client to finish this semester at SMU.

But the south-end Halifax uni­versity announced later Tuesday that Bedoa-Gorski had been sus­pended and barred from campus.

A dis ciplinary hearing will b e held as soon as possible, a uni­versity spokesman said.

SMU was in the national head­lines last week for a frosh week chant encouraging the rape of underage girls.

Bedoa-Gorski abused the girl last October.

He was also charged with sex­ual interference. That charge will be withdrawn after he is sen­tenced for sexual assault.

Bedoa-Gorski remains free on an under taking , with conditions banning him from using the Inter­net, having contact with children under the age of 16 and going to schools, parks, playgrounds and other places known to be frequen­ted by kids.

He’s forbidden from commu­nicating with the victim or going to her home. The girl’s identity is protected by a publication ban.

Bedoa-Gorski was director of MAPS Elite, a Halifax-based pro­gram for high-performance soccer players between the ages of 12 and 16 .

He’s also coached in Soccer Nova Scotia’s provincial program, at the Farias Soccer Academy and with clubs such as Cole Harbour, Dartmouth United, Halifax Dun­brack and Dartmouth FC.












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 IDLE NO MORE CANADA- our beautiful First Peoples of 10,000 years- u matter-Canada matters
 }}  this day and age.... u would come 2 Canada and trophy hunt OUR BEARS????- let alone the First Peoples of 10,000 years in Canada- u would insult our First Peoples-  had to cry- watched this on APTN- Canada's First Peoples Television Station- how could we not mourn and cry- and 2 leave the carcass- like the billion buffalo stolen from USA First Peoples.... Come one it's 2013

 Bear Witness: a film by BC's Coastal First Nations



 Published on Sep 3, 2013


 When 'Cheeky' the bear is ambushed and decapitated in front of a lone witness, a chain of events is set in motion up and down the coast. You're the next link.







 imho- we must all work 2gether 4 our environment- and yes we need our own energy and use our own oil- Cape Breton toxic wasteland  is now a children's park- we must stop using oil, gas whatever from HERITICAL MUSLIMS who are destroying Muslims like pirannas every damm day in the Middle East, Africas and Asias..... we just cannot continue 2 condone this kind of world in 2013-


   God bless our Canada- I always picture God looking like Chief Dan George  :-)

 Idle No More Canada-  our beloved First Peoples 10,000 years-  our Canada children- our wolves (my very favourite creature- haunting- beautiful-inspiring) - let's look after Canada now


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 The Wolves

 The Gray Wolf (Canis lupus; also spelled Grey Wolf, see spelling differences; also known as Timber Wolf or Wolf) is a mammal in the order Carnivora. The Gray Wolf shares a common ancestry with the domestic dog (Canis lupus familiaris), as evidenced by DNA sequencing and genetic drift studies. Gray wolves were once abundant and distributed over much of North America, Eurasia, and the Middle East. Today, for a variety of human-related reasons, including widespread habitat destruction and excessive hunting, wolves inhabit only a very limited portion of their former range. Though listed as a species of least concern for extinction worldwide, for some regions including the Continental United States, the species is listed as endangered or threatened.

  IF U LOVE WOLVES PLZ ENJOY IT!! SAVE THEM!!





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UBC student leaders quit over rape chant

September 12, 2013 - 7:02am By THE CANADIAN PRESS




Same chant recited at SMU earlier this month


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Tenancy rules eased for abuse victims

September 11, 2013 - 7:20pm By THE CHRONICLE HERALD
Nova Scotia is making it easier for abuse victims to get out of leases early without financial penalties.

“The worry about a lease could prevent someone from leaving a dangerous situation,” John Joyce-Robinson, the justice department’s director of victim services, said Wednesday in a news release.

Through changes to the Residential Tenancies Act, victims can now work with victim services to end year-to-year leases with one month’s notice instead of three months and end fixed-term leases before the stated end date.

Tenants who would previously had to pay the rent for the rest of the lease can now apply to have the financial responsibility reduced.

For more information, call victim services at 1-888-470-0773.


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ABUSED CHILDREN'S HEALING MONUMENT-  TORONTO- CANADA



























Canada Child Abuse Healing Monument- the quilts- Martin Kruze - We Remember - 2 honour those who survived horrific child abuse and paedophiles- and those who did not.... Martin Kruze ("Iwas a Paedophiles dream") little boy who loved playing hockey at Maple Leaf Gardens- commited suicide 3 days after horrid 2 year sentence of paedophiles who abused 80 little boys who just loved hockey..... We remember Martin... here's to the One Billion Rising- around the world- breaking the chains- no more abuses and - no more damm excuses.... Canada's stepping on up hard...







Martin Harold Kruze who told the story of his horrendous abuse at Maple Leaf Gardens- COMMITED SUICIDE- at tender 23 yrs of age-  AT THE LITTLE BIT OF JAIL TIME THE PAEDOPHILE MONSTERS GOT.... Dr. Michael Irving built the ONLY.....Children's Abused Surviivors Healing Monument- which is in Toronto, Ontario- Canada-  Martin Kruze PAEDOPHILE ABUSED – COMMITED SUICIDE AT 23 YRS OF AGE...   I WAS A PAEDOPHILES DREAM’.....








Martin Kruze- I was a Paedophile's Dream-  young hockey player- 3 days after PAEDOPHILE'S 2 YEAR VERDICT-  young hockey play Martin Kruze was so distraught = he commited suicide




Martin Kruze on Reaching Out Child Abuse Monument- TORONTO, CANADA


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The Child Abuse Healing Monument- Toronto - Ontario- Canada- the only one of it's kind in the world-   Honours Martin Kruze who opened the door VERY PUBLIC- on evil child abuse PAEDOPHILES-   THE TACKY LITTLE SENTENCE of abusing so many little boys- caused Martin Kruze 2 commit suicide-  in his early 20s-  "I was a PAEDOPHILE'S dream"-  4 all the Martin Kruze kids and those who did make it.... as CHILDREN OF THE SECRET... be silent no longer-  we are all paedophile hunters.... and we love our children in our Canada...


Martin Kruze- I was a Paedophile's Dream-  young hockey player- 3 days after PAEDOPHILE'S 2 YEAR VERDICT-  young hockey play Martin Kruze was so distraught = he commited suicide




Martin Kruze on Reaching Out Child Abuse Monument- TORONTO, CANADA


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ANONYMOUS: Message to pedophiles
We are anonymous. We are defenders of the internet. We are yet again on the heels of pedofiles around the world.
There are many websites with children being exposed and it is not right morally, legally or in respect to human rights.
Pedofiles of the internet this is a warning to you. This is a warning to your supporters and anyone that takes part in your sick world. We will come for you.
We will find you. We will shut down your websites and kick you out.
You are not welcome here and we have had enough of you.
Leave our children alone and while you are at it leave the rest of the planet alone.
This is not a threat, this is a promise. We will hunt you down and exterminate you like cockroaches.
You are the lowest form of life on this planet and it is time for you to be extinguished.
We are the ones that will do this task. We are Anonymous. We are the great Legion. Everyone, from all walks of life have joined in this fight.
People in every country, in every race and every religion all have the same belief. The belief that our children deserve to be safe.
The pedophiles have not gone away and we must join forces to make it happen. We need to put all of our resources together to get these evil people away from our children.
There are many of you that are concerned about the same issue. Now is your time to act. Get involved.
We do not forgive we do not forget expect us we are legion, and we are coming for you pedophiles.

ANONYMOUS: PAEDOPHILES




Anonymous : Pédophilie d'état, nous savons.



Appel à la reconnaissance de la Pédophilie d'État



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cher speaks on the common sense of 'feminism'


 GET THE POINT- IT'S LIKE CHER SAYS  2 question r u a feminist still??



Cher on the art of the comeback


A conversation with Cher on working with Lady Gaga and singing for Jackie O

by Elio Iannacci on Sunday, September 8, 2013 8:00pm


Q: So many young performers like Taylor Swift don’t want to identify as feminists. Why is that?

A: What is the bad connotation with feminism? When women have full control of their bodies, when women get paid exactly the same as men, when everything that happens for men happens for women, I can stop calling myself a feminist.








AND..




READER’S CORNER

‘How many of you are feminists?’



I remember being in high school in Mr. Plato’s Global History class when he point-blank asked the students: “How many of you are feminists?"

Only about three of us raised our hands. Plato told them all they were doorknobs (or something to that ef­fect, lovingly) and explained that feminism is the basic b elief in equal­ity, something the other kids had never considered before.

Kids aren’t taught about feminism — not what it actually is, anyway. They close their eyes and imagine feminists as fat lesbians, frothing at the mouth and hating men while they stuff their faces with three-day-old tuna casser­ole.

They don’t think of their mothers, struggling to make the same pay as the men at work. They don’t see their older sisters dealing with misogyny each and every day as a university student. They don’t see their neigh­bour being raped, their best friend b eing turned down for jobs, or their grandmother being forced to stay home because that was her “place."

Kids need to know what feminism is, because feminism is how we’re all going to make our world a better place. Making each group equal is how we move beyond issues like what’s happening in our university system, in or our political system, in or our work­places and in our schools.

You have to teach people when they are young that all people deserve equal respect, or else you’ll lose them. Why are kids in their first year of university so quick to accept a sexist chant? Because they don’t know any better, and that’s our fault.

We have to do better for the girls and the boys, or else the next genera­tion will lose something that’s been essential in shaping the current gener­ation: the ongoing fight for gender equality.

Christie Blotnicky, Halifax




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 IDLE NO MORE CANADA- our beautiful First Peoples of 10,000 years- u matter-Canada matters
 }}  this day and age.... u would come 2 Canada and trophy hunt OUR BEARS????- let alone the First Peoples of 10,000 years in Canada- u would insult our First Peoples-  had to cry- watched this on APTN- Canada's First Peoples Television Station- how could we not mourn and cry- and 2 leave the carcass- like the billion buffalo stolen from USA First Peoples.... Come one it's 2013

 Bear Witness: a film by BC's Coastal First Nations



 Published on Sep 3, 2013


 When 'Cheeky' the bear is ambushed and decapitated in front of a lone witness, a chain of events is set in motion up and down the coast. You're the next link.







 imho- we must all work 2gether 4 our environment- and yes we need our own energy and use our own oil- Cape Breton toxic wasteland  is now a children's park- we must stop using oil, gas whatever from HERITICAL MUSLIMS who are destroying Muslims like pirannas every damm day in the Middle East, Africas and Asias..... we just cannot continue 2 condone this kind of world in 2013-


   God bless our Canada- I always picture God looking like Chief Dan George  :-)

 Idle No More Canada-  our beloved First Peoples 10,000 years-  our Canada children- our wolves (my very favourite creature- haunting- beautiful-inspiring) - let's look after Canada now


 -----------------


 The Wolves

 The Gray Wolf (Canis lupus; also spelled Grey Wolf, see spelling differences; also known as Timber Wolf or Wolf) is a mammal in the order Carnivora. The Gray Wolf shares a common ancestry with the domestic dog (Canis lupus familiaris), as evidenced by DNA sequencing and genetic drift studies. Gray wolves were once abundant and distributed over much of North America, Eurasia, and the Middle East. Today, for a variety of human-related reasons, including widespread habitat destruction and excessive hunting, wolves inhabit only a very limited portion of their former range. Though listed as a species of least concern for extinction worldwide, for some regions including the Continental United States, the species is listed as endangered or threatened.

  IF U LOVE WOLVES PLZ ENJOY IT!! SAVE THEM!!





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REMEMBERING IN CANADA- WHY WE ARE FREE

-  and not 2 stomp on all the rights and privileges that so many Canadians died 2 ensure we and our future children and theirs may have.... honour ur military, militia, reservists, rangers and special forces- it's the least we can do...












"You have to remember, I am one of the many that gave you the freedom you have enjoyed all your life,” said 94-year-old Henry Kriwkon.

“The iconic photograph, as you know, captures two things,” Coleman said. “The pain of separation and the value of duty.”


‘Wait for me, Daddy’ photo immortalized in bronze
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