Monday, November 21, 2016

Canada Military News: u survived the abuse... u'll survive the recovery :) #CHILDABUSE #DisposablePeople - #VictimsMatter - #ChildrenOfTheSecret #FosterKids #ChildAbuse ... mindrape.. physicaltorture...sexualmolestation /Martin Kruze- I was a Paedohile's dream...committed suicide because of hundreds of boys and so little jail time 2monsters/ChildAbuseHealingMonument Toronto Canada only one of kind in world- links survivors, heroes and broken souls/LINKS ALWAYS





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ABUSED CHILDREN'S HEALING MONUMENT-  TORONTO- CANADA
 Martin Kruze commited suicide like millions of children and youth who have had their souls stolen by PAEDOPHILES-  over 200 charges against so many kids- and the monster soul stealers got less than 2 years..... (at least 3 have been charged again on another 40 charges all these years later)- Martin Kruze could not live with the fact that the law and the Judges let him down so horrific- and it broke our hearts...


http://www.irvingstudios.com/child_abuse_survivor_monument/images/quilt_inventory/711A2_square.htm

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MILLIONS OF US FOSTER CHILDREN WERE HORRIFICALLY ABUSED AS WWII KIDS.... Child Abuse-   MindRape  PhysicalTorture  SexualAssault 



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Open secret: Sexual abuse haunts children in indigenous communities
Freda Ens says she was a baby when her birth mother sold her for a bottle of beer.
The buyer was an unrelated man she would later call "Grandfather." Her earliest memories include being sexually molested by a number of men in his extended family.
"I don't ever remember being able to say, 'No, you can't do that,' or, 'No, I don't have to do that,'" recalled Ens, 59, who grew up in B.C.'s Old Massett Village, a Haida community.
"I would wake up and it would be dark and I wouldn't know who it was ... It could have been an uncle ... it could have been another cousin.
"The one I knew was my dad, who went to jail, and then my grandfather."
Child sexual abuse is a disturbing reality in many of Canada's First Nations, Metis and Inuit communities, research is beginning to show.
Extensive interviews with social scientists, indigenous leaders and victims undertaken over the past few months by The Canadian Press show that the prevalence of sexual abuse in some communities is shockingly high. And only now are prominent indigenous leaders speaking out publicly for the first time about the need for communities to take a hard look.
It's a painful legacy connected to almost 120 years of government-sponsored, church-run residential schools, where aboriginal leaders say many native children were physically and sexually molested by clergy and other staff.
The abused in turn became abusers, creating a cycle of childhood sexual violation that has spread in ever-expanding ripples from one generation to the next.
Within indigenous society, the knowledge that children are being molested is often an open secret — but one to which few are willing to give voice. Instead, they dance around the words, talking instead about child welfare, bullying, substance abuse, intergenerational trauma and community conflict.
While The Canadian Press has a policy of not identifying the victims of sexual assault, Ens agreed to be identified in this story as part of her ongoing efforts to raise awareness about the problem in aboriginal communities.
Community health nurse Shelly Michano, who lives and works in Biigtgong Nishnaabeg First Nation in northwestern Ontario, is on the front lines. She sees the consequences of sexual abuse among some residents, which can manifest as alcohol and drug abuse, chronic illness and suicide.
"I would say as First Nations people, you're hard-pressed to find anybody who doesn't have personal experience with this," said Michano.
"But it's never, ever quite on the surface. There's still lots and lots of stigma attached around that. And people don't necessarily openly speak about it still."
Finally, however, some aboriginal leaders are beginning to tear away the veil of secrecy, acknowledging that until the cycle of sexual abuse is brought to light, it will continue, threatening the well-being of future generations of Canada's First Peoples.
"Sexual abuse and incest is amongst our people, there's no question," Perry Bellegarde, national chief of the Assembly of First Nations, said in an interview.
"Have the courage to stand up and say: 'This is an issue and let's expose this to the light of day' ... that's the obligation of the community leadership and the communities themselves."
Sexual violation of children is an ugly fact of life worldwide, crossing all cultural, educational and socio-economic boundaries. Within Canada's overall population, research shows one in three girls and one in six boys experience an unwanted sexual act, with 30 to 40 per cent of victims abused by a family member.
But the prevalence of abuse among indigenous populations is difficult to assess accurately, experts say — in part because of conflicting evidence, and also because the issue is so taboo within communities that it often remains shrouded in silence.
In a 2015 review of studies, published in the American Indian Culture and Research Journal, researchers say child sexual abuse is one of the major challenges facing indigenous communities across the continent, but data is often contradictory.
"Sometimes, reported incidence rates of CSA are comparable to those found in the general population. Other times, incidence is much higher," the authors write, concluding that research to determine the actual scope of the problem in Canada "is crucial."
In a 2014 Statistics Canada report, a higher proportion of aboriginal people reported experiencing some form of childhood physical and or sexual maltreatment before the age of 15, compared to their non-aboriginal counterparts. The study also noted it is possible that some of that abuse may have been a direct or indirect impact of residential schools.
In his work as the chairman of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission, which looked at the toll taken on survivors of residential schools, Sen. Murray Sinclair frequently heard gut-wrenching stories about sexual abuse and its devastating long-term effects. But he has no way to know the true extent of the problem.
"There is very little data, people are just not looking at it," Sinclair said.
"In our calls to action at the TRC, we said one of the things we lack in this country is an understanding of the magnitude of the problem and we need to look at better ways of gathering data so we can develop solutions that are properly focused."
Intergenerational sexual abuse is one key reason behind widespread substance abuse, a form of self-medication that helps both victims and perpetrators push down their emotional pain and bury their shame, health experts and aboriginal leaders say.
"If somebody's going through trauma or addicted to alcohol or drugs, there's a reason," said Jason Smallboy, deputy grand chief of the Nishnawbe Aski Nation, an organization representing 49 indigenous communities in northern Ontario.
"And probably 80 per cent, 90 per cent is related to sexual abuse."
The abuse has gone beyond residential school survivors, their children and grandchildren, said Sinclair.
"We are looking now at a situation where intergenerational children are abusing each other," he said. "Where members of street gangs are victimizing young girls, girls are going missing and being hauled into the sex trade in significant numbers."
The impact of childhood sexual abuse is expected to be a central issue raised when hearings begin early next year for the inquiry into missing and murdered aboriginal women. An interim report is due in November 2017.
"Throughout the (pre-inquiry) hearings on missing and murdered indigenous women and girls, we certainly found the incidents of child abuse and the association of child abuse was very, very frequent, in both the descriptions of the victims and in the perpetrators," said federal Indigenous Affairs Minister Carolyn Bennett.
One of the first steps in addressing sexual abuse is acknowledging its existence and saying it is not OK, said First Nations child advocate Cindy Blackstock.
"We have to make sure that our kids know that elders are the keepers of the traditions and no one in our community, including elders, ever has a right to harm a child," Blackstock said.
"We have to, as a group, embrace what hurts and we have to say to those young people that 'We know that's part of your experience and we are not going to deny it. We know it is there and we want to be there with you to do something about it.'"
Ens, who knows her memories of abuse are far from unique after nearly three decades of working with victims of crime, said she hopes sharing her experiences will help others scarred by being sexually violated as children.
"My biggest message would be to tell someone, and that it is not your fault," she said.
"When we don't talk about it, we are just as guilty as the perpetrator. We are covering it up."
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Kristy Kirkup and Sheryl Ubelacker, The Canadian Press


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#ChildrenOfTheSecret   MILLIONS OF US FOSTER KIDS WWII WHERE HORRIFICALY ABUSED - We were a paedophile's dream  .... #CHILDABUSE  -#MindRape #PhysicalTorture #SexualAssault

 Sex abuse likely to dominate inquiry

Hearing on missing and murdered indigenous women expected to begin in 2017

KRISTY KIRKUP THE CANADIAN PRESS

OTTAWA — Sharon Acoose remembers being groped as a child by an uncle who paid her in pocket change for her trouble — the earliest roots of a life scarred by sex work, drug use and jail time.

“He would give me a quarter … or a nickel or a dime, whatever he had,” Acoose, 63, recalled during an interview with The Canadian Press.

“You wouldn’t believe all the candies that I bought.”

Despite the longest of odds, she managed to turn her life around, eventually becoming a professor of social work. Countless others who followed a similar trajectory are no longer alive to tell the tale.

To this day, that same cycle is repeating itself with alarming frequency in indigenous communities across Canada, a CP investigation has found.

And with its insidious links to suicide, violence and mental health problems, the issue of child sexual abuse is poised to be a key theme in next year’s long-anticipated national inquiry into the tragic phenomenon of murdered and missing indigenous women.

Acoose was just three years old and living in Regina when it started — three separate uncles, all of them now dead.

The memory later manifested as emotional, spiritual and physical self-punishment, fuelled by the cocktail of drugs and alcohol she used to numb her pain.

“That was just my destiny,” she said.

“That’s exactly why I became what I became, because I grew up bitter, against men.”

Indeed, experiences of sexual and physical abuse among indigenous women and girls are so pervasive they are expected to overwhelm next year’s national inquiry, where commissioners will examine and report on the systemic causes of the violence.

Hearings are expected to begin in early 2017 and will undoubtedly draw attention from around the globe, said chief commissioner Marion Buller.

In May 2014, the RCMP documented 1,181 murdered and missing women between 1980 and 2012. A year later, it said 32 additional aboriginal women had been murdered and 11 more had disappeared since it first reported on the issue.

The force also cited an “unmistakable connection” between homicide and family violence.

Aboriginal women are vulnerable precisely because they’re aboriginal and women, said Dr. Yvonne Boyer, a Canada Research Chair at Manitoba’s Brandon University.

Boyer co-authored a report on trafficking of aboriginal women for the Public Safety Department in May 2014 that noted many of its participants suffered sexual abuse as a child, contributing to a pattern of exploitation that carried on into their adult years.

“I see it as all being on a continuum,” she said in an interview. “You have children who are abused, you have young teenagers that are abused, they go through life, then it is just normalized behaviour . . . some of them, we just don’t hear their voices anymore because they’re gone.”

The links between missing and murdered women and childhood sexual abuse is undeniable, added Wally Oppal, who led B.C.’s hearings on how authorities handled cases in the wake of the Robert Pickton investigation.

Pickton — one of Canada’s most notorious serial killers — was convicted in 2007 of the murders of six women and charged in the deaths of 20 others. A number of them were aboriginal.

Oppal’s report found aboriginal women experience higher levels of violence in terms of both incidence and severity and are disproportionately represented among the missing and murdered.

“I still think of those women and what had happened to them . . . the abuses that had taken place and why they had left home,” he said.


Sharon Acoose sits for a photograph at her office at the First Nations University of Canada in Saskatoon. LIAM RICHARDS • CP


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#PopeFrancis gets it.... he totally gets it.... and God how we need a voice of reason in this hard hard world of rich folks extermination of humanity and environment by any means necessary for the mighty $$

Pope indefinitely extends special permission on abortion
VATICAN CITY — Pope Francis is allowing all priests to absolve women of the "grave sin" of abortion, extending indefinitely special permission he had granted for the duration of the just-ended Holy Year of Mercy.
Francis wrote in the Apostolic Letter made public by the Vatican on Monday that "there is no sin that God's mercy cannot reach and wipe away when it finds a repentant heart seeking to be reconciled" with God.
But he also wrote: "I wish to restate as firmly as I can that abortion is a grave sin, since it puts an end to an innocent life."
Because the Roman Catholic Church holds abortion to be such a serious sin, it had long put the matter of granting forgiveness for it in the hands of a bishop, who could either hear the woman's confession himself or delegate that to a priest who was expert in such situations.
But in 2015, Francis had said he was allowing all rank-and-file priests to grant absolution for an abortion for the duration of the Holy Year, which ran from Dec. 8, 2015 through Nov. 20, 2016.
By now letting all priests absolve the sin of abortion on a permanent basis following the end of the Holy Year, Francis is further applying his vision of a merciful church to those women who, as he has written in the past, felt they had no choice but to make "this agonizing and painful decision."
"May every priest, therefore, be a guide, support and comfort to penitents on this journey of special reconciliation" for faithful who had abortions, Francis wrote.
He explained his rationale thusly: "Lest any obstacle arise between the request for reconciliation and God's forgiveness, I henceforth grant to all priests, in virtue of their ministry, the faculty to absolve those who have committed the sin of procured abortion.
"The provision I had made in this regard, limited to the duration of the Extraordinary Holy Year, is hereby extended, notwithstanding anything to the contrary."
How to form consciences on abortion figured in how bishops in the United States advised their flock during the recently ended U.S. presidential election campaign.
Some pastors urged their congregations to keep the sacredness in life in mind when deciding which candidate would get their vote. The "sacredness of life" phrase is widely seen as referring to abortion. U.S. President-elect Donald Trump voiced his opposition to abortion while campaigning, while his Democratic opponent, Hillary Clinton, supported women's right to have an abortion.
Frances D'Emilio, The Associated Press
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Inquiry must address spectrum of violence against indigenous women: activist


OTTAWA — An Ojibway activist is calling on the federal government to include domestic abuse in a forthcoming inquiry exploring the issue of missing and murdered aboriginal women.
Joan Jack, a retired lawyer who ran to lead the Assembly of First Nations in 2012, says the inquiry should include the entire spectrum of vulnerabilities faced by aboriginal women both on- and off-reserve.
"At one end you have domestic violence and at the other end you've got the serial killer," Jack said in an interview.
Some women in indigenous communities are reluctant to come forward to talk about the abuse, which is a product of colonialism and the legacy of residential schools, said Jack, who is from Berens River First Nation in Manitoba.
"I think the only way women would talk is if their comments were kept anonymous," she said. "They're scared because when you're being beaten up, it is scary."
Perpetrators may be related to people in power in tight-knit communities, she added.
"If you decide to talk ... it just doesn't affect your personal safety," Jack said. "It affects your ability to benefit from the limited resources that we have."
Jack also said she would like to see aboriginal leaders focus more on teaching indigenous men about sexism, in addition to giving them the opportunity to build self-esteem.
The high levels of violence in many communities has been on the radar of the Native Women's Association of Canada for decades, said president Dawn Lavell-Harvard.
"We don't have the same supports as other communities and then the increased vulnerability when our women go to urban and rural settings and level the communities and things are even worse," Lavell-Harvard said.
The inquiry will need to examine the complete picture in order to be effective, she added.
On Tuesday, Indigenous Affairs Minister Carolyn Bennett emphasized that the inquiry would need to examine the root causes of the violence, going beyond a mere tally of missing and murdered women.
The issue of domestic violence is still "almost routinely linked" to the effects of residential schools, as well as the effects of child abuse and the child welfare system, she noted.
"Unfortunately in some families, you will end up with the perpetrator and the victim," Bennett said.
"Even though the statistics will show that indigenous women are slightly less likely to be killed by an intimate partner or former partner, all of these issues have to be dealt with.
"The bottom line that I heard the most often was, 'Hurt people with hurt people.'"
Lavell-Harvard said the government should take immediate action to provide more shelter spaces for indigenous women in crisis.
"That needs to be addressed right away," she said.
Bennett said the government is aware of a need for more safe houses and additional shelter space both for indigenous communities and in the urban centres.
—Follow @kkirkup on Twitter
Kristy Kirkup, The Canadian Press


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OVER 3 BILLION HUMANS DO NOT HAVE OUTDOOR TOILET FACILITIES.... much less inside toilet facilities ...much less gender choices... think how many girls and boys get raped in villages in hard parts of the world..... with no protection to go  during night..




 N.S. man to save lives with World Toilet Day

THE CHRONICLE HERALD

newsroom@herald.ca @chronicleherald

Sparked by a Nova Scotian plumber born in South Africa — and with the support of the United Nations — there is now an official World Toilet Day.

Ben John grew up in a family of 12. They had one ‘toilet,’ a glorified hole in the ground 400 metres from the house. He vowed to become a plumber, and give his family a seat in the house many take for granted: a flushable, sanitary, safe toilet.

“I remember my mother and sisters having to use the pit toilet at night and being afraid of predators or animals,” John said. “The pit toilets in my primary school were located about 500 feet away from the classrooms.”

Help 2 Overcome, an organization in Freetown, Sierra Leone that sets up and manages practical, sustainable sanitation facilities, is helping John on his mission.

He’s already completed one project in Freetown for Prisons, a school for children whose parents are in prison.

With one under his belt, John and H2O have a goal of providing 2.4 billion people around the world with facilities.

“We in this part of the world can help eradicate these preventable diseases like diarrhea and Ebola. Diarrhea caused by poor sanitation and unsafe water kills 315,000 children every year,” says John.

World Toilet Day was Nov. 19.
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